Part of his behaviour was control of women by paying a vulnerable woman for consent and both physically and emotionally abusing me as he felt he had no control in his working world dominated by men. Women in his view were not equal. He was an entitled and abusive partner/man at the time.

2/2I only consented to sex with him as long as he was exclusive to me. As he didn’t tell me he wasn’t being exclusive he did not have my consent in my opinion.

1/2 Mine more after him watching porn online about 10 years ago (certainly changed his mindset) and probably parental influences regarding respect for women/male entitlement leading to sex with online prostitute advertising on porn sites.

#PaulaHall

Me too 😢 but he’s working hard to change

Isn’t only a problem for boys. Many older men also having associated issues #PaulHall

Fantastic book. Male partner read it and then went on to read your other books !