Alan
totenmaske.bsky.social
Alan
@totenmaske.bsky.social
Moved to Michigan years ago from Florida to “get winter.” Not to mention to be with my soulmate. Father of furry children. Youngest Son of a woman who thought the world of her children - yet who recently passed from dementia that took away everything…
So much #snow
December 10, 2025 at 9:05 PM
December 10, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Have some wisdom teeth extractions scheduled in January. #teeth #wisdomteeth
December 5, 2025 at 12:15 PM
Winter Moon #moon
December 5, 2025 at 12:13 PM
November 1, 2025 at 12:06 PM
#moon tonight
October 31, 2025 at 12:02 AM
Soon… #halloween
October 30, 2025 at 11:25 PM
Sharing this post from my instagram - Prepping/Testing the candy cauldron for Halloween
#halloween
October 30, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Reposted by Alan
In the age of performative cruelty, #kindness is #punk as fuck, be punk as fuck.
May 15, 2025 at 2:19 AM
October 21, 2025 at 2:20 PM
October 5, 2025 at 8:25 PM
Voodoo being a precious cinnamon roll - sadly she has become deaf in her later years. #dogs
September 26, 2025 at 8:03 PM
I can’t with this world… with my mom’s passing it feels like the beautiful world I expected/lived in has passed on into darkness with her.
My mom “peacefully” died in her sleep December 28th 2024 - dementia took her. Her funeral was January 7th 2025. The last time she was mentally active (present enough to know me) was a few days in No...
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February 21, 2025 at 9:14 AM
July last good day, by November Mom was receiving Hospice care, and on December 28th mom was gone. Dementia took everything.
February 7, 2025 at 10:15 PM
Mom would have loved the sky this morning.

I just wish I could have had her visit me once we got the house. Covid hit, amongst other things.
January 17, 2025 at 11:56 PM
My mother passed on December 28th 2024. Her funeral was January 7th 2025. I did my best to talk about her at the burial. “My heart has joined the Thousand, for my friend has stopped running today.” Was how I began, but I am broken and broke down. Dementia robbed me of a best friend and my Mom.
January 16, 2025 at 5:06 AM
My sister decided to pick up a dog for our mother who is in the last stages of Dementia and is now in hospice. She was worried that her child would find the stuffed animal before we were able to give it to our Mother. I told her, “Well she will get him soon, so not too worry too much about it.”1/2
November 25, 2024 at 1:36 AM