You can't talk to someone that isn't willing to reflect, take accountability, and actually have a conversation with you about how both of us were hurt, without blaming the other. If you don't want to be in my life there is the door, I won't stop you. I will never force anyone to stay with me. (6/8)🧵

Can't have that, I guess. You are not perfect either, no one is. It has taken me a long time and a lot of amazing people to get me to realize that I deserve better than that. You can't make someone understand or see how they hurt you, no matter how hard you try. (5/8)🧵

The relationship is going to die if every time I try to express my feelings, you get defensive or tell me you did nothing, especially when I am begging you to see any portion of my POV. All I ever wanted was an apology and an honest and open conversation about where we go from here. (4/8)🧵

"I didn't do anything to make you feel that way" is an extremely hurtful sentence and completely dismissive of the person trying to express themselves. I will not argue about my feelings, I shouldn't have to defend them, they are mine, and no one gets to tell me how I feel about something. (3/8) 🧵

I have been ghosted, talked shit about, or called out my name by so many people that claimed to care about me. They got defensive and blamed me for trying to come to them and explain how something hurt me. Let me be clear, I will not ever have my reality flipped to something I know to be false(2/8)🧵