I had to deal with a cache that is both sync and async, it needs to work outside react components and also be reactive (the react meaning of it).

So made up this little pattern :)

Wow!
it took like 6 minutes to set up an entire reset password flow using shadcn/ui and cursor together with better-auth

took some time to understand the drizzle + better-auth story.
basically better-auth expects the table names to be singular by default (sql table names. not related to the drizzle table variable name).
needed to specify `usePlurals` to make it work.