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Ben
@thisguy74.bsky.social
Writer. Smart-ass. Born in South Alabama, living between humor and heart.
From crooked bangs to corduroy collars, the late ’70s and early ’80s had me serving looks I didn’t even know I owned. A little sneak peek into the stories behind these faces—coming soon in Sugar in My Britches. #SugarInMyBritches #MemoirInTheMaking #RetroVibes #QueerMemoir #SouthernStories
September 13, 2025 at 3:34 PM
Coming home hits different when you’ve been through some things. The road is the same the same, but you’re not. This chapter’s closing with a front porch and a deep breath. #nextchapter #cominghome #southernlife
August 3, 2025 at 9:43 PM
San Diego tried to seduce me with perfect weather, street tacos, and a man named Chad who sells crystals out of his Prius. I barely escaped. Mentally, I’m still there.

#SanDiegoSaga #VacationUnhinged #TacoTrance #CrystalChad #BeachsideBreakdown #SeagullsJudgedMe #SoCalCultRecruit #PhotoDumpPanic #T
August 3, 2025 at 9:42 PM
August 3, 2025 at 9:40 PM
Started with sweet tea and shame, ended up telling my story in full color. Still barefoot in spirit…just with better lighting. #queervoices #southernroots #lgbtqstories #thenandnow #FromTheSouthWithLove #WritersOfInstagram #MemoirMoments
August 3, 2025 at 9:39 PM
Some days just hit different. The laughs, the quiet moments, the people who make it all worth it. Glad I caught this one on camera. #DaysLikeThese #LukeCombsVibes #CountrySoul #SmallTownHeart #LifeInMotion #MomentsThatMatter #SouthernStorytelling #HeartstringsAndHarmony #GratefulFeels
August 3, 2025 at 9:37 PM
Never thought I’d wrangle the chaos in my head onto paper—but here I am, 9 chapters deep and still going. Chapter 10’s a mystery, just like half my childhood. Might call it “Y’all Ain’t Ready.” Might call it therapy. Either way, it’s coming. #SoutherMemoir #southernstories #queerwriter
July 23, 2025 at 9:06 PM
I’m part porch ghost, part coastal gremlin, blessin’ hearts and mindin’ mine. I’ll gas you up, hand you a cold drink, and vanish politely before the drama starts.

#SouthernFriedSoul #BlessAndDip #SunlitSpecter
July 20, 2025 at 4:35 PM
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🇺🇸 😕
June 13, 2025 at 11:32 PM
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If a US Senator is not safe from being handcuffed and detained for free speech, none of us are safe.
June 12, 2025 at 6:52 PM
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👇🏽
June 12, 2025 at 7:18 PM
June 1, 2025 at 7:15 PM
June 1, 2025 at 6:57 PM
Just a bit of amateur watercoloring.
June 1, 2025 at 3:36 AM
He WILL NOT be getting my vote. Republicans have Alabama last in everything.
Not a coincidence.
May 27, 2025 at 11:48 PM
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May 25, 2025 at 3:10 PM
May 25, 2025 at 3:09 PM
May 25, 2025 at 3:07 PM
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Respect!!!

@harvard.edu 😍

The link to the FREE GOVERNMENT COURSES is ...

pll.harvard.edu/subject/gove...
May 24, 2025 at 10:32 PM
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🚨REPORT: The Trump-GOP attack on Medicaid could close 15 rural hospitals in TN

Republicans are willing to sacrifice rural hospitals and YOUR access to care just to give their billionaire sponsors tax breaks they don’t need.

NEWSWEEK: www.newsweek.com/medicaid-cut...
May 17, 2025 at 12:58 PM
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That's because they're all a bunch of selfish assholes who don't care if it doesn't directly affect them. Now it's them trying to lie to themselves that the orange felon didn't just totally fuck them over.
May 10, 2025 at 9:28 PM
1 billion a month.
💵 @profgalloway.com : “Trump’s first 100 days will go down as the greatest grift in 🇺🇸 history — his family’s net worth has increased $1 BILLION per month.”
May 10, 2025 at 9:19 PM
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May 7, 2025 at 3:26 PM
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Hard to argue…
May 7, 2025 at 12:23 PM