\*We keep things to ourselves and don't share personal things with them\* Them: "You never tell me anything! I did so much for you and this is what you do?"

\*We come to them for advice\* They shoot us down and shame us.

*We share something personal with them\* They go and use it against us.

I see what ya did there...

IMHO these are the best that are available in the states. For starter noods anyway. There's more obscure brands with a ton of great flavors, but as far as mass produced, Shin Black takes the cake.