Ness 🦨
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thequietdingus.bsky.social
Ness 🦨
@thequietdingus.bsky.social
(they/she) ✦ 31 ✦ Queer ✦ AutiHD ✦ Shy, geek, monster lover, tea drinker, museum worker & professional hermit. 🌈🖤🛸🏴‍☠️🌿 ✦ euro-latine living in 🇨🇱
I just binged the show without ANY context because a friend said I would like it and it's like Queer as Folk meats Yuri on Ice and I love it. Thank you friend. (Apparently I had been living under a rock and hadn't heard about it before 🤷)
December 22, 2025 at 3:43 AM
and my country chose fascism. Neat. Great. Fun. Can't wait to live at least four years of this shit.
December 14, 2025 at 11:48 PM
I guess if you've only ever been in fandoms spaces though screens it might warp your perception of other people 🤔
November 25, 2025 at 11:45 PM
Some of my teachers both in high-school and uni were nerds. Con-attendees, artists, collectors... most people actively participating in fandom spaces were adults. I've had interactions like the one I had today since I was a teen myself. That's always been fandom life for me.
November 25, 2025 at 11:45 PM
She also said I looked "cool" and it's weirdly reassuring to be perceived as that by a teenager (especially one that kinda reminds me of me at that age). Teens tend to intimidate me for some weird reason😅
November 25, 2025 at 11:45 PM
It was a quick 3 mins max convo and it kinda reminded me of cons and those random enthusiastic and nerdy interactions about fandom with random people. Maybe a con will be in my horizon in 2026.
November 25, 2025 at 11:45 PM
I love flowers! I just think it can cost the same, it's more fun and a bit more original to receive Legos or puzzles 🤷 It would definitely work better on me in a 1st/2nd/3rd date scenario... These over flowers any day👇🌷 (Plus, it could be a fun activity to do together ON the date? FUN!)
November 22, 2025 at 6:19 PM