I love vagal nerve resets! Singing helps too 🥰 I didn't know the crawling mimicking helps. That makes total sense, thx for sharing

That is so cute! Crochet is amazing 🥰

I have relationship whiplash and I have new skills and I won't give up. Don't you either. For anyone else in this boat because as my mentor told me over and over. Every experience and emotion we have is a human one and shared with all humans simply because you are human.

She said omg yes!!! I need that I want so badly to be a good friend too! So today I've made ppl super pissed off, repaired, and made a new friend, possibly two. Her wife is super cool too. She's trans and the second I saw her I grinned ear to ear because I love us. And we both had a euphoria moment

I told her I knew what she meant it is so hard learning to navigate relationships for us and as adults learning skills we "should" have learned by now. I told her my therapist gave me a needs chart I could ask ppl to fill out so I know how they need care.

It started this whole dialog between me and the people who came to pick the plants up. A lovely lesbian couple and we talked about misunderstandings and how they'd had a horrible misunderstanding with a good friend this summer and lost them over it.

The people who came felt so bad as did I, but I'm friends with my neighbors. He got on the phone and she talked me down. Like I know you'd never take my plants. She was always trying to give some to me so I thought she'd left what she couldn't take.