Our system is mostly fictives, been that way for 30+ years. 😅 It's not much different from our non-fictives? We're all just people trying to figure stuff out. It is just different and odd to see your life, or some rendition of it, out there in the public. And sucks when people assume shit about you.

Mac and cheese! Plus you can find the boxed kind pretty cheap, and it's shelf stable. 👏

I did notice! My post was an "and also", not a disagreement.

I mean, it's also just a shitty thing to do because (a) trauma isn't a requisite, and (b) we should believe systems about their lived experiences, even if that percentage were true. Like we could just accept that we (as a community) don't know everything and accepting one another is okay. 😅

Begging for a world in which people just believe each other about their experiences! 😭