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Welsh-Swedish 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🇸🇪 collage artist working in a style I call ‘effeminate gothic’ 🌚🌸☠️🎀🫀 he/him #GWithTheT
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Resurrected my Scruff. I’d forgotten this was my bio
What I do I am not an otter. I'm a fairy prince whose father is a wolf and whose mother is the queen of the fae.
November 28, 2025 at 4:05 AM
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Travelled to Brighton after work for a mini break. I was originally supposed to be here with Not Boyfriend but now I’m travelling solo. Feels good to be doing something for me
Rugged, mid-30s gay guy in a black cap and t-shirt wearing a sunflower lanyard and blue headphones. I am white with a dark blond beard that has flecks of grey in it. I am sitting on a train.
November 27, 2025 at 8:27 PM
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VNV Nation were keeping me company on the way home from the pub last night 🌝
November 23, 2025 at 10:49 AM
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Look how hot and cute and adorable Hubba Bubba is 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
My husband who’s a a handsome, white, Welsh gay guy in his early to mid 50s. He has beautiful silver hair and beard. He has a lovely smile on his face. He looks kind and gentle. He wears glasses with black frames. He is sitting in a café looking at something on his phone. He wears a grey and blue sweater. The grey and blue sections each border a strip of yellow.
November 22, 2025 at 4:56 PM
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With my mate Rhys at the Norwegian Church Christmas Fair. We’ve been friends since childhood 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏳️‍🌈
Two white, 30-something gay guys sitting down in the café area at the Norwegian Church annexe. In the background, a serving area with a gingham table cloth. On the right in the foreground is Rhys (red hair, glasses, burgundy t-shirt, cosy black fleece). He is eating a Norwegian skolebolle (school bun) which has a custard filling and a desiccated coconut topping. He has a coffee, too. I am eating a Norwegian waffle with jam. I am bald with a neat beard. I wear a dark blue plaid t-shirt, a monochrome Spice Girls t-shirt styled to look like a metal band tee, and a colourful, plastic charm bracelet.
November 22, 2025 at 4:53 PM
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Skellington cat pendant brings me so much joy 😺🖤
Shot where you can see my beard and nose, plus my olive green T-shirt and dark blue plaid shirt (worn open). Hanging around my neck and looking nice against the olive green is my black, sparkly skeleton cat pendant. I am a white gay guy with a dark blond beard with flecks of grey.
November 21, 2025 at 3:36 PM
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The title is inspired by this passage from a short story by Ray Bradbury
“That's life for you," said McDunn. "Someone always waiting for someone who never comes home. Always someone loving some thing more than that thing loves them. And after a while you want to destroy whatever that thing is, so it can't hurt you no more.” Ray Bradbury, The Fog Horn (1951).
November 19, 2025 at 2:55 PM
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‘I was the monster. You were the lighthouse’
A black and white photo of a bedroom featuring a for tree wallpaper, net curtains, a bed with four pillows and a throw, a lamp stand in the shape of an elegant cat, and a large modernist night stand consisting of two blocks. The bedroom scene is encroached upon by sinister black blobs of various shapes and sizes. They rest on the floor, float in the air, drip and float in from behind cracks and curtains and pieces of furniture.
November 19, 2025 at 2:53 PM
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I’m finding In My Eyes by Robyn so comforting right now. In my mind, she is singing to me
[Verse 1] Hey little star, don't be afraid We all fall apart and make mistakes Don't you know when nothing ever seem to make sense You put your dancing shoes on and do it again You know I believe it if you say you can. CENIUS Sign Up [Spoken Outro] Little star I got you I got you You'll be okay You'll be okay.
November 17, 2025 at 12:25 PM
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Frazzled boy in central London yesterday 🥴
White mid-30-something gay in a black and white striped top with a black skeleton cat pendant. I am also wearing a blue raincoat. I have blue headphones on any a black cap. O have a dark blond beard with flecks of grey. I have green eyes. I am pulling a silly, strained face that seems to say, ”I am not having a good time.”
November 16, 2025 at 6:46 PM
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Often the psalms at church are boring and difficult to sing (I fucking hate melisma) but they really brought the bangers today tbf. I love singing this psalm and it actually suits my voice unlike a lot of the other ones we sing
An open Swedish psalm book. The psalm is psalm 490, namely, Guds Son en gång i morgonglans.
November 16, 2025 at 1:56 PM
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I made it to the fancy doughnut place which was my plan for this afternoon. There are so many people in town today that I felt like crying by the time I got here, but the woman that served me was very kind and it’s surprisingly peaceful in here
A pistachio doughnut with white chocolate icing on a little plate. The plate rests on a stone topped table that I think is supposed to look like pink marble. On the table there is a ceramic vase in the shape of an Amalfi lemon. You can see a bit of the floor and it’s spotty. You can see my hand resting on the table. I am white and hairy. I am wearing a red charm bracelet that has ’weirdo’ in the centre written in letter beads.
November 15, 2025 at 4:05 PM
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I fucking would
An English actor with Iranian heritage who has brown hair, a moustache, and nice shoulders is dressed in 80s style PE teacher clothes, namely a white polo shirt, a soup watch and some kinda sports jacket in blue, black and white. He stands in a field holding a football.
November 15, 2025 at 1:42 PM
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I wanna get my ear pierced so I can wear these
A white person’s hand holding pink, sparkly stud earrings in the shape of a cute, cartoonish cat’s face.
November 15, 2025 at 4:59 AM
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I used to think they were singing, ”If you’re ready, PUMP me boy”
Lyrics from Push the Button by Sugababes. ”If you're ready for me, boy You'd better push the button and let me know”.
November 14, 2025 at 12:28 PM
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gay horse* for a gay boy
An ornament that’s a sparkly zebra with yellow and purple stripes plus pink bows and a sparkly purple Santa hat.
November 14, 2025 at 12:19 PM
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I took this cute pic on Friday
Me in a blue raincoat, black cap, and skeleton cat pendant smiling with my mouth closed under an umbrella. I look rugged and my beard has flecks of grey in it.
November 11, 2025 at 9:06 PM
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He’s a loving husband AND father. Just look how happy and content Findus is having some quality time with his dad
My husband in a blue ABBA t-shirt with yellow lettering and piping. He is lying on our green sofa with a stuffed toy version of Findus in the crook of his arm. Findus is a cat from a series of children’s books called Pettsson and Findus. He is anthropomorphic and wears stripy dungarees and a tiny green hat.
November 9, 2025 at 12:29 PM
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’Autons’
Three monochrome illustrated women in 70s fashions stand against a blue background where two other women (photographs this time) can be glimpsed. The monochrome figure in the centre has long, flowing hair, a sporty scarf tied around her waist, and a tight T-shirt with a statement brooch. To her left, another figure wearing a shawl with a lace trim. To her right, another figure in a shirt with a big collar, synched in at the waist with a black belt and some kind of black sweater under the shirt. She has shorter hair but it’s very curly.
November 6, 2025 at 2:03 PM
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We visited Hammersmith Irish Cultural Centre on Friday and had the pleasure of seeing this talented young man dance. What a superstar
November 2, 2025 at 4:08 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I feel so sorry for this person losing their ring but the aesthetic of this poster is just excellent. Graphic design really IS their passion
Handmade yellow paper poster with ‘LOST: diamond wedding ring. Reward if found’ written on it. The ‘lost’ part is really big at the top. The ‘diamond wedding ring’ bit is in a thought bubble beside an illustration of the lost song. Underneath the ring, there is a floating banner where you see the ‘reward if found’. The whole thing is done with black felt tip or a very fine permanent marker-type pen. It even has a border. The poster is stuck on to a café notice board with silver gaffer type.
November 2, 2025 at 3:02 PM
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They were good people which lulled me into acting as educator because it’s harder to be firm with people who mean well but bloody hell I shoulda been. Here’s all the questions they asked me
"Do you not love your husband, then?" "Don't you get jealous?" "Don't you worry he [husbandl will leave you for his boyfriend and move to Brazil?" "pointing at our friend in a pup hoodl Is that a gimp mask??"
November 2, 2025 at 11:42 AM
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It was so lovely seeing hubby smiling and laughing again
Two handsome men sitting on a bench table in the Irish Cultural Centre. They are both wearing grey. They are both looking at something on a phone. They both wear glasses. They are both white guys. The guy on the left is in his mid to late 30s. He has brown hair and stubble. The guy on the right is in his early 50s. He has beautiful silver hair and beard.
November 1, 2025 at 2:49 AM
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’Les Poupées’
A monochrome, analog collage with a sense of depth. In the centre see two little girls dressed in their best clothes for a photoshoot. They have nautical collars and sit one in front of the other. The younger girl who sits in front wears her hair loose and has a bow in it. The other girl has her hair in bunches. Behind the younger girl there is a pair of dolls in German traditional dress. In front of the older girl, in the foreground and on the left hand side of the picture, there is abother doll, again in German traditional dress.
October 31, 2025 at 9:12 PM
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I already posted this pic but this version is prettier so everyone just forget the other one, ok? 🙃
Lift mirror selfie. Mid-30 something gay man. Dark blond beard flecked with grey. Dark blue camouflage shirt tucked into Levi jeans. Black leather pyramid stud bracelets. Black leather pyramid stud belt. I am carrying a box and my coat and I have a rucksack and headphones on. It’s taken from Instagram stories and there’s a pink box with a caption that says ‘Daddy’s home’.
October 31, 2025 at 2:56 AM