🌈 | Pansexual
👿 | Atheist
🛠️ | Dismantler of Patriarchy
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If your idea of masculinity doesn’t include accountability, emotional literacy, or mutual care, then it’s not manhood… It’s learned harm.
If your idea of masculinity doesn’t include accountability, emotional literacy, or mutual care, then it’s not manhood… It’s learned harm.
If you demand respect but refuse to earn it through empathy, integrity, and care, you don’t want respect. You want obedience.
If you demand respect but refuse to earn it through empathy, integrity, and care, you don’t want respect. You want obedience.
Toxic masculinity says “man up.” Healthy masculinity says, “I see you. I’ve got you. You don’t have to carry it alone.”
Toxic masculinity says “man up.” Healthy masculinity says, “I see you. I’ve got you. You don’t have to carry it alone.”
Being emotionally unavailable isn’t a personality trait. It’s a wound. And it’s your responsibility to heal it, not make others carry it.
Being emotionally unavailable isn’t a personality trait. It’s a wound. And it’s your responsibility to heal it, not make others carry it.
A man who can’t say “I was wrong” is not a leader. He’s a liability.
A man who can’t say “I was wrong” is not a leader. He’s a liability.
If your masculinity is so fragile that a woman leading, a man crying, or a queer person existing makes you mad, you were never secure.
If your masculinity is so fragile that a woman leading, a man crying, or a queer person existing makes you mad, you were never secure.
You were taught to be “providers,” but never taught to co-parent, co-clean, co-feel, or co-exist. You have to fix this if you want to be a good partner.
You were taught to be “providers,” but never taught to co-parent, co-clean, co-feel, or co-exist. You have to fix this if you want to be a good partner.
Toxic masculinity teaches you to conquer, not connect. But the real flex? Being safe to love. Safe to trust. Safe to be around.
Toxic masculinity teaches you to conquer, not connect. But the real flex? Being safe to love. Safe to trust. Safe to be around.
You don’t need to fight every battle to prove you’re a man. Real strength is knowing when to listen, reflect, and walk away.
You don’t need to fight every battle to prove you’re a man. Real strength is knowing when to listen, reflect, and walk away.
If you only feel powerful when someone else feels small, that’s not masculinity… It’s bullying.
If you only feel powerful when someone else feels small, that’s not masculinity… It’s bullying.
If you think showing emotion makes you weak, ask yourself who taught you that and what they were trying to control.
If you think showing emotion makes you weak, ask yourself who taught you that and what they were trying to control.
If you think being “tough” means staying silent while people suffer around you, you’re not being strong. You’re being cowardly.
If you think being “tough” means staying silent while people suffer around you, you’re not being strong. You’re being cowardly.
If your masculinity depends on humiliating others, mocking the vulnerable, or “winning” every interaction, it’s not strength—it’s insecurity in disguise.
If your masculinity depends on humiliating others, mocking the vulnerable, or “winning” every interaction, it’s not strength—it’s insecurity in disguise.