Skylar River
@theautumnofskylar.bsky.social
30s | He/Him | Jewish | Trans | Queer | Chronically ill | Epileptic | Nerd | T4T Supremacy | Engaged.
We deserve every right cishet people have.
Fight me.
Carrd: https://theautumnofskylar.carrd.co/
We deserve every right cishet people have.
Fight me.
Carrd: https://theautumnofskylar.carrd.co/
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Hey, I'm Skylar! I'm that guy in the corner cheering you on and you look around like "who the fuck is yelling?" lol. I'm in my 30s, Jewish, and collect illnesses like it's the cool thing to do.
Engaged to my soulmate since November. 🥰
I scream about random shit here. So be warned lmao.
Hey, I'm Skylar! I'm that guy in the corner cheering you on and you look around like "who the fuck is yelling?" lol. I'm in my 30s, Jewish, and collect illnesses like it's the cool thing to do.
Engaged to my soulmate since November. 🥰
I scream about random shit here. So be warned lmao.
The year is almost over. And damn, what a ride it's been. My physical and mental health took an absolute beating. I didn't know if I'd make it out alive.
Surprise, bitch! I did.
Next month is 7 months with my love. She's been my longest relationship and I really hit the jackpot with her. 😍
Surprise, bitch! I did.
Next month is 7 months with my love. She's been my longest relationship and I really hit the jackpot with her. 😍
December 29, 2025 at 11:25 PM
The year is almost over. And damn, what a ride it's been. My physical and mental health took an absolute beating. I didn't know if I'd make it out alive.
Surprise, bitch! I did.
Next month is 7 months with my love. She's been my longest relationship and I really hit the jackpot with her. 😍
Surprise, bitch! I did.
Next month is 7 months with my love. She's been my longest relationship and I really hit the jackpot with her. 😍
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Hey, I'm Skylar! I'm that guy in the corner cheering you on and you look around like "who the fuck is yelling?" lol. I'm in my 30s, Jewish, and collect illnesses like it's the cool thing to do.
Engaged to my soulmate since November. 🥰
I scream about random shit here. So be warned lmao.
Hey, I'm Skylar! I'm that guy in the corner cheering you on and you look around like "who the fuck is yelling?" lol. I'm in my 30s, Jewish, and collect illnesses like it's the cool thing to do.
Engaged to my soulmate since November. 🥰
I scream about random shit here. So be warned lmao.
December 27, 2025 at 3:48 PM
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Hey, I'm Skylar! I'm that guy in the corner cheering you on and you look around like "who the fuck is yelling?" lol. I'm in my 30s, Jewish, and collect illnesses like it's the cool thing to do.
Engaged to my soulmate since November. 🥰
I scream about random shit here. So be warned lmao.
Hey, I'm Skylar! I'm that guy in the corner cheering you on and you look around like "who the fuck is yelling?" lol. I'm in my 30s, Jewish, and collect illnesses like it's the cool thing to do.
Engaged to my soulmate since November. 🥰
I scream about random shit here. So be warned lmao.
Merry Christmas! I don't celebrate anymore, but I had my first Hanukkah this year. While it wasn't what I wanted, I still enjoyed celebrating the eight days and the miracle they represent.
I hope you all have as gentle a holiday you can. Remember to be kind to yourselves. 🥰
I hope you all have as gentle a holiday you can. Remember to be kind to yourselves. 🥰
December 24, 2025 at 10:44 PM
Merry Christmas! I don't celebrate anymore, but I had my first Hanukkah this year. While it wasn't what I wanted, I still enjoyed celebrating the eight days and the miracle they represent.
I hope you all have as gentle a holiday you can. Remember to be kind to yourselves. 🥰
I hope you all have as gentle a holiday you can. Remember to be kind to yourselves. 🥰
So I've had some extreme lows since the last time I wrote something here. I ended up in the ER because they were so bad, but I'm okay now... kinda. I'm starting a new MH program tomorrow so I'm hoping that'll get me on an even keel.
The light always shines. Gotta remember that.
The light always shines. Gotta remember that.
December 14, 2025 at 3:33 PM
So I've had some extreme lows since the last time I wrote something here. I ended up in the ER because they were so bad, but I'm okay now... kinda. I'm starting a new MH program tomorrow so I'm hoping that'll get me on an even keel.
The light always shines. Gotta remember that.
The light always shines. Gotta remember that.
Things are looking up. I'm no longer hiding the fact I'm male. I'm on proper medication. I've discovered my religion. December is already shaping up to be a better month than the past three or four.
I'm excited to see where life takes me & the love of my life from this point on.
I'm excited to see where life takes me & the love of my life from this point on.
December 7, 2025 at 1:48 AM
Things are looking up. I'm no longer hiding the fact I'm male. I'm on proper medication. I've discovered my religion. December is already shaping up to be a better month than the past three or four.
I'm excited to see where life takes me & the love of my life from this point on.
I'm excited to see where life takes me & the love of my life from this point on.
Why has this year dry fucked me lmao.
Got another diagnoses... FND (Functional Neurological Disorder). I was in the hospital with it because I couldn't walk or barely talk. Fun times. (Not.)
Can November & December be good to me? Please?
Got another diagnoses... FND (Functional Neurological Disorder). I was in the hospital with it because I couldn't walk or barely talk. Fun times. (Not.)
Can November & December be good to me? Please?
October 30, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Why has this year dry fucked me lmao.
Got another diagnoses... FND (Functional Neurological Disorder). I was in the hospital with it because I couldn't walk or barely talk. Fun times. (Not.)
Can November & December be good to me? Please?
Got another diagnoses... FND (Functional Neurological Disorder). I was in the hospital with it because I couldn't walk or barely talk. Fun times. (Not.)
Can November & December be good to me? Please?
So some updates.
1. Got diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Things finally make sense from my childhood to even today.
2. Changed my name to Skylar. Feels more like me.
And 3, the biggest thing...
My partner and I are engaged. c: <3
1. Got diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Things finally make sense from my childhood to even today.
2. Changed my name to Skylar. Feels more like me.
And 3, the biggest thing...
My partner and I are engaged. c: <3
September 20, 2025 at 12:35 AM
So some updates.
1. Got diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Things finally make sense from my childhood to even today.
2. Changed my name to Skylar. Feels more like me.
And 3, the biggest thing...
My partner and I are engaged. c: <3
1. Got diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Things finally make sense from my childhood to even today.
2. Changed my name to Skylar. Feels more like me.
And 3, the biggest thing...
My partner and I are engaged. c: <3
As I sit here, listening to music, I'm reminded how lucky I am that my partner chose me.
She taught me what love is.
She taught me peace.
She taught me I'm worth something, when my whole life I believed I'm worthless.
She weathers the storms with me.
I love her more than anything in this world. xo
She taught me what love is.
She taught me peace.
She taught me I'm worth something, when my whole life I believed I'm worthless.
She weathers the storms with me.
I love her more than anything in this world. xo
August 25, 2025 at 1:32 AM
As I sit here, listening to music, I'm reminded how lucky I am that my partner chose me.
She taught me what love is.
She taught me peace.
She taught me I'm worth something, when my whole life I believed I'm worthless.
She weathers the storms with me.
I love her more than anything in this world. xo
She taught me what love is.
She taught me peace.
She taught me I'm worth something, when my whole life I believed I'm worthless.
She weathers the storms with me.
I love her more than anything in this world. xo
Today is my partner and I's anniversary. I'm so grateful every day to have her love & call her mine. She means the world to me & I don't know how I would have gotten through this past month without her.
I'm excited to where life takes us from here. xo
I'm excited to where life takes us from here. xo
August 11, 2025 at 3:13 PM
Today is my partner and I's anniversary. I'm so grateful every day to have her love & call her mine. She means the world to me & I don't know how I would have gotten through this past month without her.
I'm excited to where life takes us from here. xo
I'm excited to where life takes us from here. xo
So uh... yeah... I'm a trans guy.
And trust me, this revelation did not come easily.
My partner sat me down. She asked me, without judgement, "If it wasn't for your trauma around men, what would you identify yourself as?"
And then I broke down sobbing.
Because I knew.
I always knew I was a guy.
And trust me, this revelation did not come easily.
My partner sat me down. She asked me, without judgement, "If it wasn't for your trauma around men, what would you identify yourself as?"
And then I broke down sobbing.
Because I knew.
I always knew I was a guy.
July 15, 2025 at 11:40 AM
So uh... yeah... I'm a trans guy.
And trust me, this revelation did not come easily.
My partner sat me down. She asked me, without judgement, "If it wasn't for your trauma around men, what would you identify yourself as?"
And then I broke down sobbing.
Because I knew.
I always knew I was a guy.
And trust me, this revelation did not come easily.
My partner sat me down. She asked me, without judgement, "If it wasn't for your trauma around men, what would you identify yourself as?"
And then I broke down sobbing.
Because I knew.
I always knew I was a guy.
Today is a month with my wonderful, amazing partner. We're taking space from each other today, but I always feel her love with me.
I don't know what I did to deserve a love like hers. But I'll protect it. I'll keep it safe. I'll do whatever I can to make her feel safe, too.
I don't know what I did to deserve a love like hers. But I'll protect it. I'll keep it safe. I'll do whatever I can to make her feel safe, too.
July 11, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Today is a month with my wonderful, amazing partner. We're taking space from each other today, but I always feel her love with me.
I don't know what I did to deserve a love like hers. But I'll protect it. I'll keep it safe. I'll do whatever I can to make her feel safe, too.
I don't know what I did to deserve a love like hers. But I'll protect it. I'll keep it safe. I'll do whatever I can to make her feel safe, too.
In happier news, I have a girlfriend. She's wonderful and beautiful and perfect and utterly and completely mine. I've never experienced a love like this before. I'm so, so grateful she chose me.
I won't post a lot because I want our relationship private, but I wanted to mention it here. 🥰
I won't post a lot because I want our relationship private, but I wanted to mention it here. 🥰
June 12, 2025 at 1:25 AM
In happier news, I have a girlfriend. She's wonderful and beautiful and perfect and utterly and completely mine. I've never experienced a love like this before. I'm so, so grateful she chose me.
I won't post a lot because I want our relationship private, but I wanted to mention it here. 🥰
I won't post a lot because I want our relationship private, but I wanted to mention it here. 🥰
Just realized I can barely understand words right now, so I can no longer write at this time. I hope I can regain my ability to one day. If I lost my capacity to write, I'd be devastated.
One day at a time, Demi...
One day at a time, Demi...
June 1, 2025 at 2:38 PM
Just realized I can barely understand words right now, so I can no longer write at this time. I hope I can regain my ability to one day. If I lost my capacity to write, I'd be devastated.
One day at a time, Demi...
One day at a time, Demi...
Officially got diagnosed with epilepsy. Another thing to add onto the bingo card... & I'm battling pneumonia at the moment PLUS a pulled muscle in my back.
This year is dry fucking me & I don't appreciate it. lol.
This year is dry fucking me & I don't appreciate it. lol.
May 30, 2025 at 1:09 PM
Officially got diagnosed with epilepsy. Another thing to add onto the bingo card... & I'm battling pneumonia at the moment PLUS a pulled muscle in my back.
This year is dry fucking me & I don't appreciate it. lol.
This year is dry fucking me & I don't appreciate it. lol.
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Another thing to add to my chronically ill bingo card: gastroparesis. At least I know what's wrong but damn this is gonna suck with changing my diet around and everything. :')
May 14, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Another thing to add to my chronically ill bingo card: gastroparesis. At least I know what's wrong but damn this is gonna suck with changing my diet around and everything. :')
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Dear cisgender people: if you don't want to be referred to as "cis"
you could always just transition and be "trans" instead 😘
you could always just transition and be "trans" instead 😘
April 11, 2025 at 5:32 PM
Dear cisgender people: if you don't want to be referred to as "cis"
you could always just transition and be "trans" instead 😘
you could always just transition and be "trans" instead 😘
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More people need to learn this lesson if a person doesn't use a name for whatever reason its not your business as to what their name USED to be
April 8, 2025 at 11:07 PM
More people need to learn this lesson if a person doesn't use a name for whatever reason its not your business as to what their name USED to be
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non-binary people don't owe you heartache
November 11, 2024 at 7:04 AM
non-binary people don't owe you heartache
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non-binary people don't owe you vanilla
November 27, 2024 at 1:31 PM
non-binary people don't owe you vanilla
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non-binary people don't owe you trash
December 12, 2024 at 1:01 AM
non-binary people don't owe you trash