SittOnIt
@the-sittisonit.bsky.social
An Arab millennial. A cat woman with 2 kits. Surrounded by people’s love and anxiety. Thankful for all. Using this space to free thoughts on my experiences (#office #friendship #patriarchy, more to come).
Men will fight you tooth and nail about splitting the bill meanwhile no one is splitting the housework, increasing women’s salaries or giving birth or having abortions on their behalf 🤷🏻♀️
It’s the LEAST a man can do 🙄
It’s the LEAST a man can do 🙄
February 11, 2026 at 1:42 PM
Men will fight you tooth and nail about splitting the bill meanwhile no one is splitting the housework, increasing women’s salaries or giving birth or having abortions on their behalf 🤷🏻♀️
It’s the LEAST a man can do 🙄
It’s the LEAST a man can do 🙄
Working from home really brings to light how much housework there is and how in the world you managed life (you didn’t) when you were in #office
February 11, 2026 at 1:39 PM
Working from home really brings to light how much housework there is and how in the world you managed life (you didn’t) when you were in #office
My unfavorite thing on men’s dating profiles is when they tell you how to win them over. As if #clueless - but the documentary version.
February 11, 2026 at 1:37 PM
My unfavorite thing on men’s dating profiles is when they tell you how to win them over. As if #clueless - but the documentary version.
Had a boss, a white man in his 40s at the time, tell me how white people are the majority in the U.S. When I brought up how the census is categorically inaccurate bc middle easterners are classified white, he asked me why it was so important to me 👀
February 9, 2026 at 4:59 AM
Had a boss, a white man in his 40s at the time, tell me how white people are the majority in the U.S. When I brought up how the census is categorically inaccurate bc middle easterners are classified white, he asked me why it was so important to me 👀
I had a boss in college who asked why I would ever visit the Middle East and live in a tent without electricity.
February 5, 2026 at 6:10 AM
I had a boss in college who asked why I would ever visit the Middle East and live in a tent without electricity.
The owner of a company I freelanced for told me his friend, the co-owner, doesn’t like working with women. All the while, the woman creative director and women project managers are who profit the company.
February 5, 2026 at 6:09 AM
The owner of a company I freelanced for told me his friend, the co-owner, doesn’t like working with women. All the while, the woman creative director and women project managers are who profit the company.
Oh and fuck the #patriarchy, a system of oppression that brings humans into question.
February 5, 2026 at 6:05 AM
Oh and fuck the #patriarchy, a system of oppression that brings humans into question.
It’s so funny to me when men get upset bc you turn down being part of their collection of conquests they would like to keep on the hook.
February 5, 2026 at 6:03 AM
It’s so funny to me when men get upset bc you turn down being part of their collection of conquests they would like to keep on the hook.
When a man you dated (for some reason) keeps explaining the concept of multiple wives 👀👀👀
February 3, 2026 at 12:46 PM
When a man you dated (for some reason) keeps explaining the concept of multiple wives 👀👀👀
When your boss asks you how you came to craft such a grand old press release quote because rocket science is his specialty 👀
February 2, 2026 at 5:49 AM
When your boss asks you how you came to craft such a grand old press release quote because rocket science is his specialty 👀
When a white man tells you to prove it and you respond with a “go educate your damn self.”
February 2, 2026 at 5:45 AM
When a white man tells you to prove it and you respond with a “go educate your damn self.”
Seeing a controlling, sexist and homophobic man have a beautiful wedding reminds me cake isn’t the superior sweet.
January 31, 2026 at 2:22 PM
Seeing a controlling, sexist and homophobic man have a beautiful wedding reminds me cake isn’t the superior sweet.
When a nepo baby tells you that it’s not about diversity but merit 👀
January 31, 2026 at 12:08 AM
When a nepo baby tells you that it’s not about diversity but merit 👀
Coupledom is a dwelling place where people forget their body is their own. Yes, you can go to the bathroom unaccompanied. #coupledomisaweirdplacetodwell
January 29, 2026 at 8:50 PM
Coupledom is a dwelling place where people forget their body is their own. Yes, you can go to the bathroom unaccompanied. #coupledomisaweirdplacetodwell
When a friend sets you up and tells you he likes submissive women. The only thing I’m submitting is the answer NO.
January 29, 2026 at 8:47 PM
When a friend sets you up and tells you he likes submissive women. The only thing I’m submitting is the answer NO.
When a former friend is surprised that others, like her, want love too 👀
January 29, 2026 at 2:01 PM
When a former friend is surprised that others, like her, want love too 👀
Was yelled at on the first day of my first job outta college for drinking out of someone’s coffee mug 👀
January 29, 2026 at 1:49 PM
Was yelled at on the first day of my first job outta college for drinking out of someone’s coffee mug 👀
Had a boss who told me his ideal woman would be deaf and mute.
January 29, 2026 at 1:22 PM
Had a boss who told me his ideal woman would be deaf and mute.
Had a colleague who slammed the door of the office I was in.
January 29, 2026 at 1:21 PM
Had a colleague who slammed the door of the office I was in.
Love when corporations want you to take the lead without a managerial salary.
January 29, 2026 at 1:11 PM
Love when corporations want you to take the lead without a managerial salary.
I had a boss once who sat behind me and called me to ask where I was, rather than just turning her head.
January 29, 2026 at 1:11 PM
I had a boss once who sat behind me and called me to ask where I was, rather than just turning her head.
In office days were great. I would drive for an hour, park in an overpriced garage, walk in to an office where no one said good morning and turn on my computer to find an email from a person sitting next me.
January 29, 2026 at 1:11 PM
In office days were great. I would drive for an hour, park in an overpriced garage, walk in to an office where no one said good morning and turn on my computer to find an email from a person sitting next me.
Snow days are a reminder that you can turn your computer on without driving one hour plus in traffic to sit in a cubicle to turn your computer on.
January 29, 2026 at 1:11 PM
Snow days are a reminder that you can turn your computer on without driving one hour plus in traffic to sit in a cubicle to turn your computer on.
Hearing men talk about wanting children for their legacy is just so romantic- makes me think about all the work I’ll have to do 😆
January 29, 2026 at 1:10 PM
Hearing men talk about wanting children for their legacy is just so romantic- makes me think about all the work I’ll have to do 😆