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We have the potential to love like the sun does—a golden cup over flowing without expectation of return.

Trying to do that.

NC Courage | Steelers | Dolphins| he/him
State Democrat staffer in a red state

The inequities of others do not excuse our own.
Capitalism with social programs is literally market socialism.

You guys are in here repeating the exact same conflations (that all socialism is non market socialism) you’re lamenting the GOP using.

Like. There are even direct quotes from FDR and Truman on this. Wtf.
November 22, 2025 at 4:25 AM
Jfc you really do have a crystal ball
November 22, 2025 at 2:45 AM
Zohran*

Worst autocorrect of the day
November 22, 2025 at 1:44 AM
Zahra’s being big E would be a pretty fantastic timeline to be on tbh
November 22, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Fix your heart or die bro.

Societal phenomenon cannot be explained by individual choice. Everything you just blamed on individuals who you made up in your head is actually a result of systems at work that hurt people which we should reform.
November 22, 2025 at 1:11 AM
It’s not “if your friend” it’s “if your friends” and, in context, tacitly it’s “if most or all of your friends”

None of us should have the hubris to assume we can’t be deceived by one person. At the same time, it’s reasonable to hope you’d notice if your entire social circle were rapists.
November 22, 2025 at 12:48 AM
Basically our system tries to impose executive dysfunction on everyone as a means of maintaining control via oppression

So those of us who already have executive function get hit hella hard.
November 22, 2025 at 12:32 AM
I agree there.

I just also have a full tilt fight or flight response (and let’s be honest I have adhd so I always choose fight) to any suggestion that it’s not a disability because that’s the language denialists and anti-treatment crusaders use.

Our system 100% makes it so, so much worse.
November 22, 2025 at 12:32 AM
I’m 100% not telling you to feel even a single ounce worse about yourself I’m so sorry if I sound like I am.

I’m glad you like you. I like you too! A lot!
November 22, 2025 at 12:24 AM
Idk I’ve lost hours scrolling on my phone instead of gaming. Because it required getting the controller or setting up controller software or some other momentary step first
November 22, 2025 at 12:23 AM
for the impairments much, much easier.

It’s those people who insist it’s a superpower—not a disorder with silver linings we personally like—but a 100% positive super power that drive me nuts because they ultimately take treatment and help away from people. I resent them for it.
November 22, 2025 at 12:22 AM
adhd either. I like who I am.

I just much prefer the me that has the help of my medicine, that gets to keep my impulsivity but has a say in how it manifests.

I don’t think having a disability makes me who I am, and I don’t think it makes me less. I just wish our society made accessing the help
November 22, 2025 at 12:22 AM
I think who you are is pretty great P(Crow)<50😔

I don’t think the neurogenetic disorder in your brain tissue is what makes you who you are, and I don’t think you should feel one ounce less happy with who you are just because that disorder causes impairments.

I wouldn’t wave a wand and stop having
November 22, 2025 at 12:22 AM
take my meds and be able to do the dishes at 6pm, focus on the shared game or movie at 9pm, get started on our project at 10 am, etc.
November 22, 2025 at 12:16 AM
my partner’s life with the noise and impulsive plans and risk tolerance that you rightly point to as the silver lining, but no amount of treatment takes that part of us away because that’s not impairment.

A kinder world would punish us much less and let that lining show more, but is still want to
November 22, 2025 at 12:16 AM
to preserver to the things that require planning ahead with a time horizon of months—the average adult’s time horizon is 6-9 months ours is only 30-45 days at best.

I am a worse partner unmedicated. I am a worse me untreated. Without neoliberalism and with robust social services I would still fill
November 22, 2025 at 12:16 AM
positive—though it is also what kills us, which it does at a huge rate—but it’s also fairly robust to treatment.

To me the worst of the disability lies in the moments. The concrete reality that we have about 1/3 reduced emotional control to our age peers, that we have a consequent reduced ability
November 22, 2025 at 12:16 AM
How many times has it made you snap at the right guy? Made you forget a promise to him? Made you lose focus on something you care about? Made you unable to process something difficult in a way that didn’t further impose on the person telling it to you?

Our heightened risk tolerance can be very
November 22, 2025 at 12:16 AM
I appreciate your point and your sentiment, I just. It is a disability, first and on its own, we’ve just built a society that needlessly magnifies it for us and everyone else.
November 21, 2025 at 11:59 PM
and alcoholism combined under luxury space communism.

We would still find ourselves stuck and unable to start actions we want and need to start even with UBI.

It is a disability, our system just makes it worse. I still wouldn’t want to go without treatment even if it didn’t imperil my finances.
November 21, 2025 at 11:59 PM
We would still have impairment for emotional regulation, impulse control, and planning toward the future even if we lived in an economic system where it don’t also make us more likely to become homeless or go without healthcare.

Untreated adhd would still have a higher mortality rate than smoking
November 21, 2025 at 11:59 PM