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thatdjspider.bsky.social
DJ Spider
@thatdjspider.bsky.social
DJ for 30+ years, cosplayer for 20+, dork my whole life. Cat mom. Spoopy. Occasionally funny. Always tall. Martha Stewart with cobwebs. Most likely to reply with a GIF. Tag me #thatdjspider of Charlotte, NC's #DigitalNoir

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🧡 Is pro women
💚 Is pro LGBTQIA+
💙 Is pro human rights
💜 Is a safe space
❤️ Will say something
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Vol. 8, Issue 2: As Digital Noir turns 10, we talk to DJ Spider about the Charlotte Dark Scene. Plus, preserving a historic Black church cemetery in Grier Heights, SNAP in schools, Black Charlotte at Carolina Theatre, Neek Tea Co.’s relaunch, food pantries in CLT & more.
November 12, 2025 at 3:22 PM
And why would foreign talent want to come to a country where they're going to be hunted by ICE because of the color of their skin? Carrying H1B papers around as proof of corporate ownership?
November 12, 2025 at 12:10 PM
I love a good parody song, and this is guuuuuuuuud!
November 11, 2025 at 11:48 AM
OK, so babies who are circumsized in infancy and take Tylenol are 2x as likely to develop autism, so stop it. But compulsory circs at age 18 for all men. THIS TIMELINE IS AN SNL SKIT BUT I HAVE STOPPED LAUGHING.

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SHOCK CLAIM: RFK Jr. Says Children Circumcised Early Have Twice The Autism Rate Due To Tylenol Use
YouTube video by Forbes Breaking News
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October 9, 2025 at 11:16 PM
MAGA self-perpetuates because their news sites are free. Paywalls prevent the complete story from being told.

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Media: The Rise (and Fall?) of Paywalls | Alexander Group
Traditional newspapers seek solutions for lost ad revenue through acquisitions, online versions, or going digital-only. Do paywalls address the issue?
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September 27, 2025 at 11:53 PM
Tickets went live 24 hours ago ⏰️ for the October Digital Noir at The Milestone Club featuring a live performance from Circuit Preacher ... and we've almost sold 40% of them! 😵‍💫 If you wanna grab your tix sooner rather than later, the link is in my bio! #gothnight #industrial #charlottedarkscene
September 23, 2025 at 10:39 PM
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Had a great first night of #DragonCon! Had the usual DragonCon Eve and then there was a surprise rave in the atrium ballroom?!?
August 28, 2025 at 4:43 AM
Reposted by DJ Spider
That was a fun first night before #DragonCon!

Super secret party, the first time ever for the con to kick off with a 4 DJ rave!

Doors flew open at midnight, and the Wednesday con people flooded in!!
August 28, 2025 at 12:46 PM
See you next week at Dragon Con! And super excited to be DJing for Can't Stop the Signal on Friday night! #DragonCon #dragoncon2025 #firefly #youcanttaketheskyfromme #shiny
August 22, 2025 at 6:16 PM
So I take it back...you WILL find me spinning at Dragon Con this year! Everything goes somewhere, and I go everywhere...

Announcement coming soon!
August 13, 2025 at 1:00 AM
As we're getting closer, a few of you have reached out, so posting it here as well: I'll be there but no, I'm not DJing at Dragon Con this year. Hope to run into you out on the floor, though!
August 8, 2025 at 12:01 AM
Grok needs to stop teasing me.
July 8, 2025 at 1:08 AM
Eeee! We're officially at the 50% mark for our July Digital Noir in Charlotte, NC, with special guests DJ Misstep and @cltsqueaky.bsky.social 🖤🎧🖤 Still need your tixies? Need to let a friend know? 🔗Link🔗 in my bio!

#gothnight #charlottedarkscene #postpunk #industrial #synthpop #darkwave #goth
July 8, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Not sitting on the news any longer - for the October 18th #DigitalNoir, I'm thrilled to announce a special live performance from Richmond, VA's @circuitpreacher.bsky.social ! Tickets go on sale 9/21. #charlottedarkscene #gothnight
July 1, 2025 at 2:07 PM
I am legit fascinated that Trump thinks that Twitter/Truth Social are official diplomatic channels between nations. And that he has to sign everything, like it's a telegram.
June 25, 2025 at 2:05 PM
Twitter has a delightful AI generated (predictive?) summary today. Screencapped it for posterity
June 20, 2025 at 12:00 PM
Copied this thread from Twitter user x.com/PawlowskiMario, if only to provide context for my new favorite term "subsimple". (1/5)
June 11, 2025 at 1:45 PM
say gay.
protect trans kids.
read banned books.
teach all history.
show love.

#goodwords #noh8 #loveislove🌈 #protectthefuture
June 6, 2025 at 3:13 PM
OK, this works much better that I thought it would! Journey vs Defying Gravity...and no, I haven't found a full mash-up yet...[[grumble]] #mashup

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June 6, 2025 at 11:13 AM
Why are we forgetting that Musk's time at the WH was *ALWAYS* going to end at the end of May? No one was fired, no one voluntarily opted to leave.
June 6, 2025 at 11:10 AM
Hey Philly frands! I'll see you at Dracula's Ball on Halloween, with @iamxofficial.bsky.social, @korineband.bsky.social and Inertia ! #gothdj #phillygoth #gothsky #thatdjspider
June 2, 2025 at 1:06 AM
#charlottenc, I'm back at Room Service at Camp Northend with DJ Blondzai for another fab Queer Icon Dance Party, highlighting Prince, Cher and Kylie! #djlife #queerlove #noh8 #thatdjspider
June 1, 2025 at 11:48 PM
#Charleston I'll be at Sugey's with DJ Vampoison on June 7th for The Web - a Gothic Pride Event, featuring local alt drag! #gothdj #gothsky #thatdjspider #scgoth
June 1, 2025 at 11:42 PM
Happy #PrideMonth! Your fights and your struggles that still exist today are to be recognized because our work for equality and acceptance is not done. But I 🖤 you, honor your bravest choices, and please know you are safe with me always. I wish all of my bats happiness, this month and beyond. 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️
June 1, 2025 at 10:00 PM
I think this was our biggest #charlottedarkscene #worldgothday picnic yet! A huge GothSwap, tons of food and drink, great music, and just everything I think makes our scene so special. THANK YOU FOR BEING THE LITTLE SCENE THAT COULD...AND DID! #goth
May 20, 2025 at 12:45 PM