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diminish how it felt to you or how you received it! its the communication thing again where I think these guys thought they were just going “what the heck!” to themselves and sulky prob also saw it that way. even then didn’t engage with it. just worth considering, rest up! 2/2
September 10, 2025 at 2:42 PM
like if that’s not what you’re talking about I’m sorry if I’m misinterpreting you! but I think its worth stepping back to think about. if it didn’t look like bullying or harassment to a stranger coming in (me) I don’t think they would have received it that way either. again not to 1/2
September 10, 2025 at 2:39 PM
I will say that I don’t think this is sulky’s fault? they’re not even mutuals with a number of these people and I don’t think they even saw what was happening until much later. they also didn’t engage or egg anyone on. all they did was post a quiz and then ask people to be kind.
September 10, 2025 at 2:37 PM
and all of a sudden somebody’s talking about skyvik?! what’s going on, get your own quiz for skyvik etc. that’s just my two cents interpreting it. but like I say, I think a lot of fandom stuff is ppl acting out of confusion/not enough information. and I’m sorry it was hurtful! 3/3
September 10, 2025 at 12:22 PM
“if someone doesn’t like jayce why would they ship jayvik?” which is a broader question and I think that’s why ppl agreed. I can understand being confused and hurt on either side of that conversation ❤️ probably ppl also felt protective bc it’s just a free quiz made to help jayvik shippers date 2/?
September 10, 2025 at 12:18 PM
aww good! my default for fandom conflict is to assume good intent but poor communication. you got me curious so I poked around and I can see why you felt piled on but I can also see it looks like they weren’t trying to say “this person should get out of fandom,” it was 1/2
September 10, 2025 at 12:13 PM
I think ppl were on edge bc some ppl had been using the quiz to just say unkind things about jayce, that’s why sulky asked everybody if they could be kind!
September 10, 2025 at 11:50 AM
thank you for explaining, I was curious! I was looking at the replies bc I wasn’t sure what you were talking about. fwiw I don’t think anyone was trying to bully you but of course everyone can use the block button!
September 10, 2025 at 11:40 AM
wait I’m confused. you don’t like jayce? you write jayvik fics
September 10, 2025 at 8:26 AM
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