Like I'm no saint. I had my Tumblr since I was 13 you will probably find SOMETHING problematic or poorly aged on there at some point. It's why I try to have grace

This friend did this with people's Tumblrs and Twitter accounts and it felt too far. Like saying someone couldn't be in our collab because they whitewashed a character 5 years ago. I'm not even exaggerating. It seemed too harsh

Yeah I actually hate that trend. A lot of times it feels like the person digging doesn't even care about the issue, they just want a reason to hate someone. I had a friend who would dig up old stuff from people's socials and use it as reason for why they were bad and it felt wrong.

Not even going to lie, it depends on the severity because I may tell people to avoid someone/ a community. But often I just block too mostly bc I'm tired of ppl and it's easier lol

I think ppl should be more understanding and extend grace more often than judge. This is something I'm working on too

I think it's petty to hold old actions over people's heads unless they were like abusers or like bigoted. I know even ppl like that can change too but I don't blame ppl for being wary in situations like that. Besides, it's very common for ppl to demonize anyone for simple mistakes nowadays.

I definitely do think it depends on the thing being said or done however if it was really long ago I can extend grace. I have done and said ignorant and messed up things in the past but then learned and grew from it. Nobody is perfect.

Not for me 😭

Are you alright? :(

Yeah sometimes we just need a break. Sometimes I think it also helps improve our art or at least our mental health

Maybe the character’s reasons for being angry weren’t super clear originally.