why are you celebrating a day founded by people who think a heterosexual family is the best family structure
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i would hope that when queer people see "international mens day" that they would look into it for 15 minutes before deciding to wholeheartedly support it but ofcourse so many don't

ALSO. THE DISCUSSION OF THE SPECTER OF DETRANSITION, AND HOW THAT INFLUENCES ACCEPTABLE NARRATIVES ABT GENDER WITHIN TRANS COMMUNITIES (I.E., NEGLECTING HOW EVEN CIS LGB PPL NEGOTIATE THEIR GENDER FAILURE). VERY GOOD. BIG FAN.

i'm really glad that gender nihilist/abolitionist lesblr was there for me 10 years ago, and i think its very fucking cool how transfeminist theory has expanded since then.

it is also still wild to me that even now, getting top surgery *precisely* bc i am not a man is so mystifying to people.

the way talia and emma consistently name the epistemic problems that we're all struggling against is sooooooooooooo important on a literal how do we break the cycle of bad discourse level.

but also. jesus fuck. the discussion of the lesbian as a degendered position!!!!!!!!! EXACTLYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!

😭😭😭 THE GUY WHO CALLED ME A TERF SAID THAT JESS RE-TRANSITIONS AT THE END HELP

having to be like. i'm not a man. i'm not even butch. if anything i'm a fucking femme. and literally no one except lesbians/wlws can understand what the fuck i'm talking about, and then having my nominally inclusive language yoinked from me in real time is wild. once again. someone said it!!!!!

also the hatred of "-aligned" language, being replaced by -masc/-fem language and then the subsequent collapsing of that language into essentially "trans men & male aligned nb people" and "trans women and woman aligned nb ppl" is one of those bizarre uno reverse moves of the discourse.

one day i am going to write a history as told from my memory of 2015-2017 lesblr but i once tried and i somehow wrote 3000 words of a disclaimer so uh. not any time soon.

in my normal less shouting i was there when the texts were written voice: oh my god finally someone said it. i was explaining last week to someone that leslie feinberg was likely not a trans man. and that SBB features detransition for a reason. and was called a terf.

i just feel like if your marginalization requires several leaps of logic to be understood, because literally no one even thinks about you.

maybe just take the W.

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in this case it was "if you say jesus had sexual desire bc he was human ur dehumanizing me!" bestie the church doesn't think of you at all. meanwhile they're calling people like me intrinsically disordered.

can you people attempt solidarity for a single fucking second.