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Been there! Good luck!
November 16, 2025 at 9:22 PM
Exactlyyyy and I do it when I see folks on other people's posts too lol
November 16, 2025 at 7:20 PM
This has me thinking about how a Christmas tree farm is a funny place to grow up. Every year you cut down trees to grow new ones
November 15, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Agreed!
November 14, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Someone once asked me "Do you think there's any way you could have brought this up that wouldn't have hurt the other person/would result in the conversation you hope to have?" which was really enlightening for me
November 13, 2025 at 8:45 PM
That's why my gut instinct is saying reading your posts. It's felt invalidating when this has come up for me. I wish I had good advice for these times but just wanna say I've felt similarly and it really sucks to be there
November 13, 2025 at 8:34 PM
I've found it's usually a bad sign when someone does something that hurts you & tries to say you're bad for having a response to their actions

"Equal damage" sounds minimizing when it was her actions of talking to your abuser & lying that hurt you. Hard to be definitive as a third party though!
November 13, 2025 at 8:04 PM
I'll take 11/18 make up show for 1300!
November 13, 2025 at 7:40 PM
This has been deinfluencing (but still appreciating I guess!) with briar ✨
November 13, 2025 at 7:34 PM
The tolerate it table is right up my alley but those are probably some of my least fav lyrics from the song lol

And I LOVE the design on the blanket but lowkey we have enough blankets round here so 🤷
November 13, 2025 at 7:33 PM
The folklore sweater was in my cart and sold out but was my fav item this drop!

The Taylor Swift sweater I LOVE embroidery detail but not something I'd wear much

Snow on the Beach sweater pom poms are so silly, obsessed
November 13, 2025 at 7:32 PM
LOVE that the idk traffic lights are an ornament because that feels like a fan beloved line that's become iconic

I would have bought the MMWM roller ball ornament if I knew it MOVED but it's out of stock now
November 13, 2025 at 7:29 PM
Here’s a good overview article hamberg.no/gtd
GTD in 15 minutes – A Pragmatic Guide to Getting Things Done
hamberg.no
November 12, 2025 at 7:12 PM
I use Obsidan for this! I have a bunch of possible projects written down with outcome and the next step to complete for the project

And then you pick up what you can do in the moment when feeling productive 1 concrete step at a time

The hardest part is the first brain dump and reviewing regularly
November 12, 2025 at 7:09 PM
Happy birthday!
November 12, 2025 at 6:58 PM
I recently got into the GTD productivity stuff (Getting Things Done) and that system recommends writing down everything. It helps me focus with less stuff rattling around my mind
November 12, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Happy it fits! One of our love languages must be songs around here 🫂🫂❤️
November 12, 2025 at 2:27 AM
I am so so sorry to hear this, Angie. I’m sending you love and warmth right now

I don’t know if this song will be your style, but this is my personal anthem for my health. It speaks to those insurmountable feelings I have at time & it’s a comfort for me

youtu.be/l_EIE5f2t6M
FOALS - Mountain At My Gates [Official Music Video] (GoPro Spherical)
YouTube video by Foals
youtu.be
November 12, 2025 at 2:11 AM
Omg I always forget that thank you!!
November 12, 2025 at 2:00 AM