Tamsin
@tamsin64.bsky.social
Discovered late in life that I am trans. Very recently came out to my family and still working through all my feelings.
Family drama continued yesterday. Really has me down.
At least one bright spot yesterday, Liam and his father are now home. It takes a special kind of evil to fly a 5 year old to another state and then lock them up in prison.
At least one bright spot yesterday, Liam and his father are now home. It takes a special kind of evil to fly a 5 year old to another state and then lock them up in prison.
February 2, 2026 at 10:52 AM
Family drama continued yesterday. Really has me down.
At least one bright spot yesterday, Liam and his father are now home. It takes a special kind of evil to fly a 5 year old to another state and then lock them up in prison.
At least one bright spot yesterday, Liam and his father are now home. It takes a special kind of evil to fly a 5 year old to another state and then lock them up in prison.
Struggling a bit with family drama, which is not focused on me. But still draining to deal with. I guess that is a hopeful sign that i am not the center of attention.
Of course the news does not help matters. It seems the law enforcement is increasing ignoring the constitution and our basic rights.
Of course the news does not help matters. It seems the law enforcement is increasing ignoring the constitution and our basic rights.
February 1, 2026 at 1:01 PM
Struggling a bit with family drama, which is not focused on me. But still draining to deal with. I guess that is a hopeful sign that i am not the center of attention.
Of course the news does not help matters. It seems the law enforcement is increasing ignoring the constitution and our basic rights.
Of course the news does not help matters. It seems the law enforcement is increasing ignoring the constitution and our basic rights.
A bit sad today. Got into a bit of a fight with my partner over something that was a bit silly. She told me to trim my fingernails and i got an attitude about it. In some ways I feel like rebellious child. Which is a bit nuts.
But in the end, it is my body after all.
One day at a time
But in the end, it is my body after all.
One day at a time
January 31, 2026 at 11:36 AM
A bit sad today. Got into a bit of a fight with my partner over something that was a bit silly. She told me to trim my fingernails and i got an attitude about it. In some ways I feel like rebellious child. Which is a bit nuts.
But in the end, it is my body after all.
One day at a time
But in the end, it is my body after all.
One day at a time
I am realizing how much I have had blinders on most of my life. Living my largely quiet life in suburbia. Now I see how much this community has been vilified.
I am would to get move involved, just not sure where to start.
I am would to get move involved, just not sure where to start.
January 30, 2026 at 11:09 AM
I am realizing how much I have had blinders on most of my life. Living my largely quiet life in suburbia. Now I see how much this community has been vilified.
I am would to get move involved, just not sure where to start.
I am would to get move involved, just not sure where to start.
Had a good nights sleep, am feeling more energetic this morning.
I think i am going to let me nails grow out a bit. But they tend to be fragile. If you have any tips, please comment below.
One day at a time.
I think i am going to let me nails grow out a bit. But they tend to be fragile. If you have any tips, please comment below.
One day at a time.
January 29, 2026 at 11:29 AM
Had a good nights sleep, am feeling more energetic this morning.
I think i am going to let me nails grow out a bit. But they tend to be fragile. If you have any tips, please comment below.
One day at a time.
I think i am going to let me nails grow out a bit. But they tend to be fragile. If you have any tips, please comment below.
One day at a time.
Another day in my journey. I am taking things slow. Making small changes to my appearance. I really need to shop for some new clothes. Want something a bit brighter.
My partner seems to be doing a bit better. So, I am trying not to overwhelm her. I am also trying to be more attentive.
My partner seems to be doing a bit better. So, I am trying not to overwhelm her. I am also trying to be more attentive.
January 28, 2026 at 10:40 AM
Another day in my journey. I am taking things slow. Making small changes to my appearance. I really need to shop for some new clothes. Want something a bit brighter.
My partner seems to be doing a bit better. So, I am trying not to overwhelm her. I am also trying to be more attentive.
My partner seems to be doing a bit better. So, I am trying not to overwhelm her. I am also trying to be more attentive.
Another day in my journey. I came out to my family, at this point only them, last Saturday. My kids handled it well. My partner is still struggling. I know I dumped a lot on her and I am trying to be supportive/understanding. I believe I am still the same person. But she does not see it that way.
January 27, 2026 at 11:05 AM
Another day in my journey. I came out to my family, at this point only them, last Saturday. My kids handled it well. My partner is still struggling. I know I dumped a lot on her and I am trying to be supportive/understanding. I believe I am still the same person. But she does not see it that way.
Starting the second week after coming out. I am sorting out what all this means in terms of family and work. I am realizing that transition is going to be difficult due to how late in life i came out. There is so much to lose between work and family.
Taking it one day at a time and am hopeful.
Taking it one day at a time and am hopeful.
January 26, 2026 at 9:27 AM
Starting the second week after coming out. I am sorting out what all this means in terms of family and work. I am realizing that transition is going to be difficult due to how late in life i came out. There is so much to lose between work and family.
Taking it one day at a time and am hopeful.
Taking it one day at a time and am hopeful.