CodeNameHera
@tammiewillis.bsky.social
Cult survivor, mom, coach, recovery advocate, mental health professional, community builder, cosplayer, reader of banned books, mushroom forager, all around goofball, wading back in to higher ed to do more good in the world.
Never Normalize
Never Normalize
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Here is why the "normal" people in your life who support the cruelty, hate, violence, theft, lawlessness, genocide, eugenics, abuse, rape, and murder are so entrenched and so deep down miserable.
They are living with massive amounts of cognitive dissonance.
Here is why the "normal" people in your life who support the cruelty, hate, violence, theft, lawlessness, genocide, eugenics, abuse, rape, and murder are so entrenched and so deep down miserable.
They are living with massive amounts of cognitive dissonance.
October 27, 2025 at 1:28 PM
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Here is why the "normal" people in your life who support the cruelty, hate, violence, theft, lawlessness, genocide, eugenics, abuse, rape, and murder are so entrenched and so deep down miserable.
They are living with massive amounts of cognitive dissonance.
Here is why the "normal" people in your life who support the cruelty, hate, violence, theft, lawlessness, genocide, eugenics, abuse, rape, and murder are so entrenched and so deep down miserable.
They are living with massive amounts of cognitive dissonance.
Getting strong Lady Elaine Farichild vibes from that makeup job though.
October 13, 2025 at 12:56 AM
Getting strong Lady Elaine Farichild vibes from that makeup job though.
It's only a good movie if you pretend it's a parody. But I did trick my 13 year old son into watching it with me by telling him it was really scary and it wasn't until the end that he figured out it was a joke.
September 17, 2025 at 12:17 AM
It's only a good movie if you pretend it's a parody. But I did trick my 13 year old son into watching it with me by telling him it was really scary and it wasn't until the end that he figured out it was a joke.
True story. We were at his restaurant in Tampa 10 years ago. I know, I know.
They have a giant statue of him at the entrance and we ironically tried taking my son's photo with it.
The giant, heave ass, plaster statue was loose and almost fell on my son.
Photo from after we set it back in place.
They have a giant statue of him at the entrance and we ironically tried taking my son's photo with it.
The giant, heave ass, plaster statue was loose and almost fell on my son.
Photo from after we set it back in place.
July 24, 2025 at 8:35 PM
True story. We were at his restaurant in Tampa 10 years ago. I know, I know.
They have a giant statue of him at the entrance and we ironically tried taking my son's photo with it.
The giant, heave ass, plaster statue was loose and almost fell on my son.
Photo from after we set it back in place.
They have a giant statue of him at the entrance and we ironically tried taking my son's photo with it.
The giant, heave ass, plaster statue was loose and almost fell on my son.
Photo from after we set it back in place.
When you're walking your large dog with leash in one hand, but you want to be friendly, so you wave your full poop bag at the mail person.
Or am I the only one who waves amicable dog shit at their neighbors?
Or am I the only one who waves amicable dog shit at their neighbors?
January 31, 2025 at 4:14 PM
When you're walking your large dog with leash in one hand, but you want to be friendly, so you wave your full poop bag at the mail person.
Or am I the only one who waves amicable dog shit at their neighbors?
Or am I the only one who waves amicable dog shit at their neighbors?
Our Airbnb in Philadelphia has an amazing view of downtown, but is also directly behind the Magic Gardens, so you get a sort of Above and Below effect.
Reminds me of Neverwhere.
@neilhimself.neilgaiman.com @PhillyMagicGardens
Reminds me of Neverwhere.
@neilhimself.neilgaiman.com @PhillyMagicGardens
January 4, 2025 at 2:56 AM
Our Airbnb in Philadelphia has an amazing view of downtown, but is also directly behind the Magic Gardens, so you get a sort of Above and Below effect.
Reminds me of Neverwhere.
@neilhimself.neilgaiman.com @PhillyMagicGardens
Reminds me of Neverwhere.
@neilhimself.neilgaiman.com @PhillyMagicGardens
We did a Flash Gordon group cosplay several years ago. I save cosplay pieces out of sentimentality.
This one seems particularly appropriate this year, and may be our tree topper in perpetuity.
(Sam Jones and Melody Anderson asked US for a photo. It was very cool.)
This one seems particularly appropriate this year, and may be our tree topper in perpetuity.
(Sam Jones and Melody Anderson asked US for a photo. It was very cool.)
December 21, 2024 at 12:16 PM
We did a Flash Gordon group cosplay several years ago. I save cosplay pieces out of sentimentality.
This one seems particularly appropriate this year, and may be our tree topper in perpetuity.
(Sam Jones and Melody Anderson asked US for a photo. It was very cool.)
This one seems particularly appropriate this year, and may be our tree topper in perpetuity.
(Sam Jones and Melody Anderson asked US for a photo. It was very cool.)
Forcing myself to do the things that bring me peace and joy.
Scene from Saturday night, new local music venue, music from dear friends, children playing and dancing in front of the stage.
This is what we all need.
Scene from Saturday night, new local music venue, music from dear friends, children playing and dancing in front of the stage.
This is what we all need.
November 19, 2024 at 2:51 PM
Forcing myself to do the things that bring me peace and joy.
Scene from Saturday night, new local music venue, music from dear friends, children playing and dancing in front of the stage.
This is what we all need.
Scene from Saturday night, new local music venue, music from dear friends, children playing and dancing in front of the stage.
This is what we all need.