I think I will always be too big of a baby haha

I don’t have to retweet for everyone to know the answer lol

I mean… you know I am a snake girly 🐍

I’m a whole ass person with sexual tastes and moods that shift constantly. You could be the hottest, coolest person ever and I might just not feel sexual attraction to you 🤷‍♀️

There’s nothing wrong with you because of that. But there’s nothing wrong with me either.

7/7 fin.

I don’t know why I am posting this all here. I guess… maybe to say to not be so quick to label someone?

Because it does bother me a bit when people label me as demisexual or sapiosexual or on the asexual spectrum because I don’t want to casually play with every single person who is willing.

6/?

I don’t even know if this makes sense. 😅

I want my soul to feel fulfilled as much as my body is.

Whether it is a casual thing of not…

I crave intimacy above all else.

And I don’t feel that kind of soul bonding connection with anyone in my polycule other than my actual partners.

5/?

But thats not really true. I can be hypersexual when I’m into someone and I would definitely be into group play if the vibes were right.

Honestly, it’s not even about having a romance with someone. Like, it isn’t the casualness that turns me off…

4/?

My polycule never make me feel left out for not enjoying group playtime. But I also don’t know that they understand.

They tend to refer to me as someone who isn’t very sexual or who doesn’t like group play.

3/?

But I just find it a little off putting if I’m being honest. I am at a stage in my life where I don’t want to sexually play with people unless I have a connection with them too.

I don’t find it fulfilling and I know I would struggle to feel turned on.

2/?

My gray hairs are all covered with pink dye lol 😆

I don’t know how old you are but I’m definitely every bit of 40 🤷‍♀️