Disclaimer: dudes can have boobs. I just prefer no titties for myself 🏳️‍⚧️💜

Warframe is great bc over half the masc characters have high heels. We need more dudes in high heels in games 🔥

(My Kullervo has heels)

HOWEVER, this went away. Long-term incontinence can happen, but it's not guaranteed. As I said, pre-surgery kegels can help. More importantly, follow post-op care!!! Don't strain to pee, walk every once in a while to get bloodflowing, rest, etc.

9) "You'll be incontinent."

So the first week or 2 after surgery, I was having spasms in my bladder. This is normal. I woke up from surgery BEGGING the nurse to let me go to the bathroom bc I couldnt get myself to pee in the bed pan 😅

8) I worried a bit about deep penetration being painful bc of the nature of the surgery. But it's not (as long as I am prepared for it, using lube, etc). Turns out my bussy is still pretty deep after surgery... but i'm not a size king by any means XD

I was not able to put ANYTHING in my bussy for about 4 months after surgery. Also, my doc checked on my recovery along the way. And once I was able to penetrate myself, I started slow and gentle.

Now I'm shoving thicc tentacles in there w/o a problem 😅

CW: kind of body horror/medical

7) "Your vagina will fallout."

There are many factors to vaginal prolapse that go way beyond having a uterus or not- like the strength of your pelvic floor muscles & surrounding connective tissue.

6) "You'll start menopause early."

The ovaries produce estrogen/progesterone, not the uterus. Removing the uterus will get rid of cramps, menstrual bleeding, and the possibility of pregnancy... But just removing the uterus won't cause menopause.

5) "You will be in the hospital overnight."

I went home the same day. As stated earlier, this was minimally invasive- 3 keyhole incisions were made and surgery went smoothly. So I was able to go home once the anesthesia mostly wore off. Of course, a close friend drove me home.

To avoid bending at my pelvis/hips, I had to slouch back while sitting and slide off my bed to avoid bending at the hips. So recovery is awkward & uncomfortable, but I was not totally helpless.

4) "You'll be stuck in bed for a whole week."

I won't sugarcoat it: the first 2 days after surgery, it felt like I was being stabbed and punched in the pelvis. BUT that pain did not mean I could not walk.

3) "This is a high-risk surgery, that will have you out of work for several months."

Maybe if I had a larger uterus and we didn't have minimally invasive ways of operating. Generally, recovery is about 6-8 weeks total.

After the surgery, I did have pelvic floor muscle spasms on occasion but this was temporary. Any pelvic surgery is going to mess w/ them. Kegels & g-spot toys help a ton!

Yes, I used condoms before my surgery. My fear of pregnancy was so bad, I'd tense up & penetration was tough some days. I do still watch out for STDs (routine testing, only skipping a condom with trusted ppl, etc).

2) "You won't enjoy sex like you did before."

This one makes me laugh bc sex has been WAY BETTER since I kicked my dudeterus to the curb. I don't have crippling anxiety about pregnancy or my partner going down on me and bleeding between periods randomly.

1) "You'll want kids later in life." I may want kids eventually in life, BUT I certianly don't intend to birth any. Plenty of children who need homes as is; I'd rather adopt 💜