They look great. Well done you for thinking of something so inspiring during that awful time.

Can they come to my house too?

I often think about doing this also.

Don't do it. It's dreadful.

Thank you, and the same to you

Then maybe accept that relationship for what it was, a teaching moment that has shown you what you want in life. It's up to you to decide how you want to go forward' but I wish you well. Life is tough sometimes

I totally understand, I've been there. It's hard being a grown up. Maybe just ignore them for now and see how you feel in the future.

Same

I'm so tired of walking on eggshells. I don't want my daughter to think this is acceptable behaviour.

I can't remember the last time we had some genuine relaxed time together. Everything is his way or a battle.

This is not the person I used to be or want to be now.

I'm stuck though. For now.

3)

He then shouted at me "ffs l can't do anything right!" Then walked away slamming doors and went to bed sulking.

I'm taking deep breaths and trying to tell myself that it's just him lashing out because he has a scary surgery coming up.

I want to talk to him about it but I know how he'd react

2)

Just started Uni. But my husband has heart issues and is getting open heart surgery in the coming months, so I'm going to be his carer while he recovers