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She proves that midlife women aren't 'aging out' -- we're leveling up.
We're not invisible -- we're influential.
We're not over the hill -- we're on the rise.
We're not done -- we're just getting started.
Drop a 💫 if you're ready to own your power like MO
She proves that midlife women aren't 'aging out' -- we're leveling up.
We're not invisible -- we're influential.
We're not over the hill -- we're on the rise.
We're not done -- we're just getting started.
Drop a 💫 if you're ready to own your power like MO
Watching her choose herself.
- She wrote Becoming at 54
- Launched Higher Ground at 55
- Found her voice (again) at 56
- Prioritized joy at 57
Plot twist: Your next chapter isn't your fade out -- it's your power up 🌟
Watching her choose herself.
- She wrote Becoming at 54
- Launched Higher Ground at 55
- Found her voice (again) at 56
- Prioritized joy at 57
Plot twist: Your next chapter isn't your fade out -- it's your power up 🌟
- Anxiety and self-doubt
- Marriage rough patches
- Hormonal reality checks
- The constant pressure to be 'on'
But the power move?
She talks about ALL of it. Publicly. Authentically.
Wearing authenticity and vulnerability like it's freaking ARMOR 💫
- Anxiety and self-doubt
- Marriage rough patches
- Hormonal reality checks
- The constant pressure to be 'on'
But the power move?
She talks about ALL of it. Publicly. Authentically.
Wearing authenticity and vulnerability like it's freaking ARMOR 💫
It was a midlife woman saying:
I see the game
I know the rules
And I'm choosing not to play
In her book she admits this wasn't easy.
But she learned that sometimes the power move is walking away from the game entirely 💫
It was a midlife woman saying:
I see the game
I know the rules
And I'm choosing not to play
In her book she admits this wasn't easy.
But she learned that sometimes the power move is walking away from the game entirely 💫
Remember when critics dragged her for wearing 'off the rack'?
Society expects midlife women to play it safe, but not MO.
Every outfit was a statement, every choice had purpose.
She didn't just wear clothes -- she used fashion to open doors ✊🏾
Remember when critics dragged her for wearing 'off the rack'?
Society expects midlife women to play it safe, but not MO.
Every outfit was a statement, every choice had purpose.
She didn't just wear clothes -- she used fashion to open doors ✊🏾
👏 You're not too old.
👏 You're not too late.
👏 You're exactly where you need to be.
Drop a 🚀 if you're ready to own your next chapter.
#GenX forevah 🫶
👏 You're not too old.
👏 You're not too late.
👏 You're exactly where you need to be.
Drop a 🚀 if you're ready to own your next chapter.
#GenX forevah 🫶
- We're finally old enough to trust our instincts.
- Young enough to learn new tricks.
- Experienced enough to call BS.
And yeah, sometimes I have hot flashes during Zoom meetings.
(But I also have the confidence to just announce it and laugh 😅)
- We're finally old enough to trust our instincts.
- Young enough to learn new tricks.
- Experienced enough to call BS.
And yeah, sometimes I have hot flashes during Zoom meetings.
(But I also have the confidence to just announce it and laugh 😅)
It's not about being the most technical.
It's about being the most ADAPTABLE.
Guess who's been adapting their whole lives?
• Vinyl ➡️ 8-track ➡️ cassette ➡️ CD ➡️ streaming
• Landline ➡️ car phone ➡️ flip phone ➡️ iPhone
Hello! We're reinvention itself 💪
It's not about being the most technical.
It's about being the most ADAPTABLE.
Guess who's been adapting their whole lives?
• Vinyl ➡️ 8-track ➡️ cassette ➡️ CD ➡️ streaming
• Landline ➡️ car phone ➡️ flip phone ➡️ iPhone
Hello! We're reinvention itself 💪
As a teacher & school leader, I learned to:
• Read a room
• Build consensus
• Handle tough conversations
• Navigate politics
• Troubleshoot, well, pretty much anything
Tech just gave me new ways to use these skills.
As a teacher & school leader, I learned to:
• Read a room
• Build consensus
• Handle tough conversations
• Navigate politics
• Troubleshoot, well, pretty much anything
Tech just gave me new ways to use these skills.
1. We're wired for iteration
Remember life before spell-check?
We learned by getting it wrong. A lot!
Turns out, that's EXACTLY how tech works:
• Launch fast
• See error as progress
• Keep improving
We've been doing this since we recorded Casey Kasem's Top 40 on cassettes 😉
1. We're wired for iteration
Remember life before spell-check?
We learned by getting it wrong. A lot!
Turns out, that's EXACTLY how tech works:
• Launch fast
• See error as progress
• Keep improving
We've been doing this since we recorded Casey Kasem's Top 40 on cassettes 😉
But once we hit menopause, the sexism and ageism in the marketplace is totally derailing.
If you know what’s coming, you can position yourself to avoid.
48 is the perfect time. Go get it, girl! 🙌💪✨
But once we hit menopause, the sexism and ageism in the marketplace is totally derailing.
If you know what’s coming, you can position yourself to avoid.
48 is the perfect time. Go get it, girl! 🙌💪✨
- Build a social following (yes, it matters)
- Seek out speaking opportunities
- Don’t leave ‘the tech stuff’ to the millennials
Don’t cede your voice to anyone else. Own your niche fully.
- Build a social following (yes, it matters)
- Seek out speaking opportunities
- Don’t leave ‘the tech stuff’ to the millennials
Don’t cede your voice to anyone else. Own your niche fully.
2. If you’re a woman, when you hit your mid 50s, the job offers dry up
- “You’re too expensive”
- “We’re looking for someone with a fresher take”
- “It’s not a fit”
This has happened to every single professional woman I know.
2. If you’re a woman, when you hit your mid 50s, the job offers dry up
- “You’re too expensive”
- “We’re looking for someone with a fresher take”
- “It’s not a fit”
This has happened to every single professional woman I know.
- You’re not everyone’s mom, you’re experienced
- You’re not behind the times, you’re savvy
- You’re not old, “you look great for your age”
If you have a big career move to make, make it now.
- You’re not everyone’s mom, you’re experienced
- You’re not behind the times, you’re savvy
- You’re not old, “you look great for your age”
If you have a big career move to make, make it now.
Our daughters.
The girls picking up racquets, joining teams, and dreaming of the C-suite today? They're standing on the shoulders of ALL these queens 👑
Drop a 🎾 if you're figuring out how to own YOUR power.
Our daughters.
The girls picking up racquets, joining teams, and dreaming of the C-suite today? They're standing on the shoulders of ALL these queens 👑
Drop a 🎾 if you're figuring out how to own YOUR power.
It was about knowing your worth, building something bigger, and holding the door open for others.
And look who walked through that door:
Venus and Serena 👑
Venus fighting for equal prize money at Wimbledon in 2007? Pure BJK energy right there 💪
It was about knowing your worth, building something bigger, and holding the door open for others.
And look who walked through that door:
Venus and Serena 👑
Venus fighting for equal prize money at Wimbledon in 2007? Pure BJK energy right there 💪
When they said she was past her prime, she went ahead and:
- Won 39 Grand Slam titles
- Ranked #1 in the world
- Changed sports history
Turns out your prime isn't about your age.
It's about owning your power 🔥
When they said she was past her prime, she went ahead and:
- Won 39 Grand Slam titles
- Ranked #1 in the world
- Changed sports history
Turns out your prime isn't about your age.
It's about owning your power 🔥
In her 30s, she was:
- Running multiple organizations
- Playing world-class tennis
- Fighting for equality
While guys in the locker room said she was "too aggressive"
The kicker: She was OUR MOMS' age!
That pressure we feel? We're playing a bigger game.
Own it 💪
In her 30s, she was:
- Running multiple organizations
- Playing world-class tennis
- Fighting for equality
While guys in the locker room said she was "too aggressive"
The kicker: She was OUR MOMS' age!
That pressure we feel? We're playing a bigger game.
Own it 💪
BJK refused to play tournaments that paid women less.
"Sorry, not available that week" was her line (🖕)
And yeah, she heard all the classics:
- "Be grateful for what you get"
- "You're being difficult"
- "This is how it's always been done"
Sound familiar? 😒
BJK refused to play tournaments that paid women less.
"Sorry, not available that week" was her line (🖕)
And yeah, she heard all the classics:
- "Be grateful for what you get"
- "You're being difficult"
- "This is how it's always been done"
Sound familiar? 😒
She didn't wait. She built.
She created:
- The Women's Tennis Association
- World TeamTennis
- The Women's Sports Foundation
Because sometimes if you want change?
You have to build it yourself.
(Midlife pivot energy, anyone?)
She didn't wait. She built.
She created:
- The Women's Tennis Association
- World TeamTennis
- The Women's Sports Foundation
Because sometimes if you want change?
You have to build it yourself.
(Midlife pivot energy, anyone?)