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Steven
@steven-sonder.bsky.social
Gen X, biracial, married, Democratic Socialist

Grew up in UK, poor, Brown, ND, NB, activist

US immigrant. 3 startup exits. ex-CTO at $B company. Writes software and books. AI expert. Burnt-out ex-genius

#Anti-fascist #Resist #Solidarity #Empathy
You're saying it's a bust?

I shall see myself out.
November 28, 2025 at 5:12 PM
We all know why. Because justice and bail are bought and sold like commodities in US. Enough money buys you the best lawyers who can ensure you are never convicted, even if you did the crime.

Trump could literally lead a coup on the footsteps of the Capitol on live TV and not ... hey wait a minute
November 28, 2025 at 5:10 PM
If we go through the world, populations outside the US who live in repression and fear with terrible human rights abuses and poverty not caused by US or US companies greatly outnumber those where it is directly caused by US, without excusing the US for the evil it has done.
November 28, 2025 at 5:08 PM
This statement contains a lot of truth but on balance is wrong.

Is US responsible for China's genocide of Uyghurs? Repression in Tibet? China having one of worst human rights records?

Is US responsible for Russia's genocide in Ukraine? Russia having one of worst human rights records.
November 28, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Good luck, Aftyn.

She's a progressive left-wing candidate fighting to win a deep-red Trump district.

This is an important test case for left-wing Dem thesis that candidates who focus on affordability and lifting up poor by taxing rich will outperform moderate, corporate Democrats everywhere.
November 28, 2025 at 4:43 PM
A) Trump says the majority of immigrants in US are on welfare, criminals, drug cartel etc.

B) He also says Tim Walz is seriously r*tarded.

What is the statement that needs to be headlined and condemned? Obviously Tim Walz is more important than 27m+ immigrants ????
November 28, 2025 at 11:36 AM
As you observe with your context, Hillary didn't make a misstep with this statement. She spoke the truth and all the right-wing outrage was performative.
November 28, 2025 at 11:30 AM
"As insulting as the 'deplorables' comment" - GTFO.

Calling a bunch of "ists" - racist, sexist, etc. - MAGAs deplorables is speaking truth to scumbags

Calling immigrants people on welfare, criminals, drug cartels etc. is NAZI concentration camp shit

I don't understand the false equivalence???
November 28, 2025 at 11:17 AM
offensive than his presence. Everyone shunning him whenever he speaks or wants attention seems warranted, although I agree a mass walkout when he's offensive to women would be a good start.
November 28, 2025 at 6:16 AM
You're 100% right, but it feels like we're missing the huge pink elephant in the room (not Trump, the other one) -

The President is an adjudicated sexual assaulter of women, probable pedophile, and possible traitor. He should be in prison, not White House.

He behaves like he is. His words are less
November 28, 2025 at 6:16 AM
None of these statements is true but it is scary to see his 11m followers on Truth Social believing and cheering every word.
November 28, 2025 at 6:04 AM
"Foreign population stands at 53 million... most of which are on welfare... or from prisons, mental institutions, gangs, or drug cartels.

They and their children are supported through massive payments... A migrant earning $30,000... gets roughly $50,000 in yearly benefits for their family."
November 28, 2025 at 6:04 AM
She thought this guy was amazing, so much her dream guy she believed him to be, that she fell in love with him then and there. A few days later, the girl killed her own sister.

What is her motive in killing her sister?

(Congrats - if you can answer this correctly, you are probably a psychopath!)
November 28, 2025 at 1:34 AM
If you want to know if someone is a psychopath, you can ask them 1 question - I kid you not - that only psychopaths ever get right.

This is a genuine psychological test. It is a story about a girl. While at the funeral of her own mother, she met a guy whom she did not know.
November 28, 2025 at 1:34 AM
Psychopathy is a psychological term (not a medical term) used to describe an extreme form of ASPD. Psychologists like to say psychopaths are cold (no empathy, fake emotion) and sociopaths are hot (weak empathy, hot emotion -anger/excitement) to describe the difference in degree.
November 28, 2025 at 1:34 AM
Yes and no.

The underlying medical condition diagnosed using the DSM-V is antisocial personality disorder. It's fair to say sociopathy is a common name for ASPD.

www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-con...
Antisocial personality disorder - Symptoms and causes
www.mayoclinic.org
November 28, 2025 at 1:34 AM
began to be something that made you more interesting and different in a good way.

Anyways, thanks for sharing your uplifting story. It's good to hear something positive in days like these.
November 28, 2025 at 12:23 AM
feeling of being different from both their parents and being too dark around white people and too white around dark people, a feeling like you don't quite belong and are an imposter.

Once I got out from my parochial life, went to university and big cities, then having an "exotic" background
November 28, 2025 at 12:23 AM
PoCs in our county. We went to an all-White school where we were racially teased every day. My mom helped make a community of non-White friends for us, but we just wanted to be like everyone else and fit in.

No matter how much your parents try, most biracial kids I've known have this
November 28, 2025 at 12:23 AM
It's great they had a mom like you.

For me, everything worked out well, but I didn't feel 100% until I met my soul mate in my 20s, who accepted me as I was.

I'm Gen X and was in first wave of biracial kids. My parents married in same year as Loving vs Virginia. My sister, mom, and I were only
November 28, 2025 at 12:23 AM