Erika Bogarka
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Erika Bogarka
@stardustetoile.bsky.social
disabled, dog mom, writer, Hungarian-American
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Hi! If you're reading this, my name is Erika. I am a lifelong #Cary #NC resident who is a dual citizen of the US and EU (half Hungarian). I was raised here by my Hungarian #immigrant grandma, Ildiko, who took pride in being a dual citizen as well. I want to share a little about me on this thread.
AND THIS IS WHY MY GRANDMA SAID TO NEVER DEPEND ON A MAN, HEAVY ON THE MAN
And fully dependent on their husband
They want women to be able to have kids.
February 4, 2026 at 2:38 AM
THE MOTHERFUCKING COURIER HELL YEAH
February 4, 2026 at 2:37 AM
THR COURIER?!
February 4, 2026 at 2:36 AM
Dude I have been a Durand fan since his tiny desk concert dressed up and SINGIN

I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU, STAY INDEPENDENT
February 3, 2026 at 7:32 PM
climate change is real, i'm watching blizzards in my backyard AND the outer banks
February 1, 2026 at 3:04 AM
January 25, 2026 at 7:50 PM
I went to see the monks as they journeyed through the old town I lived in - it was cold, but I stood there and talked with people and my friend about how to practice mindfulness and peace. This is me, standing on a bench after someone helped me up, watching for the monks.
January 25, 2026 at 7:10 AM
New Year, new tat, new start
January 17, 2026 at 6:44 AM
i may have accidentally seduced another 5'11 leo man y'all

he's begging for a date with me, i might let em

he called me cute and funny and he keeps laughing and also is very aware i want france and agrees with it and lived in the country of georgia for two years before
January 9, 2026 at 8:40 AM
They keep us poor because when one of us witnesses something, then we can be easily bribed because we need resources. Sad fucking world.
January 6, 2026 at 5:05 AM
I never want a roommate again, so fucking rude and entitled white girl energy and I'm feeling like the wooden spoon needs to come out
January 6, 2026 at 4:56 AM
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Interested in know if ANYONE in the press who was present asked any follow-up questions.

Questions like maybe “wtf, dude?” or “Ever heard of NATO?” or “Ayp fam, you good?”
Trump in a single gaggle on Air Force One just threatened:

-- a second strike against Venezuela
-- Cuba
-- Mexico
-- Colombia
-- Iran
-- Greenland (which in turn would be an attack on the EU and Denmark)
January 5, 2026 at 2:16 AM
Y'all know how much I hate George W Bush, so I would like to point out what's happening now is Iraq/Afghanistan again because they need money via oil and the military industrial complex. Cheney perfected this and y'all need to remember how we tortured innocent people. Fuck war, Fuck gov, Fuck it all
January 4, 2026 at 11:32 PM
I'm officially 80 lbs down today. 144. Wow. Don't worry I got plenty to shake still 😭 my friend informed me maybe the swimming is why I'm top heavy still RIP
January 3, 2026 at 8:12 AM
Cultured? Yeah I watched VH1 Classic religiously and will willingly stop what I'm doing for Pop Up videos, The Temptations movie, Jackson's movie, and Tina Turner movie, as well as the 100 best lists for each decade

BRING IT BACK WE ARE LOSING EDUCATION
January 3, 2026 at 8:10 AM
I knew who I was when I got the 2004 Halle Berry Catwoman Barbie with the full leather suit from Walmart - she was in HEAVY rotation
January 3, 2026 at 7:10 AM
New Year's, the old gal way @4wheelworkout.bsky.social is responsible for giving me this advice
January 1, 2026 at 3:20 AM
Y'all this weird time of year is my annual video game and charcuterie diet time. Highly recommend it for all the games you haven't finished and to graze like a duck in a field. I'm playing Lost Records: Bloom and Rage

I may have cried
December 27, 2025 at 9:56 AM
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The time between Christmas and New Year's eve
December 27, 2025 at 5:14 AM
Merry Christmas Eve, Boldog Karácsonyt, Joyeux Noël

I miss you, Grandma. We spent so many Christmases together. I am so glad you kept tapes so I can hear your laugh and piano playing again.
December 25, 2025 at 4:44 AM
oh not me finding a hidden playlist i made with janosch and re-reading our chat and finding out all my doubts about travis were flagged immediately at end of june 2020 and janosch talked me into being patient with travis when i was fed up

also documented that my mom assaulted gma in july 2020
December 22, 2025 at 7:52 AM
I'm at 148 lbs and my bra size is 34H please help 😭 I am usually a 34 DD

How the fuck did this happen 😭
December 22, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Rest in Peace to one of our good governors, Jim Hunt. My grandpa worked for him and in return, my family was close and my great-grandparents got to meet him during their visit. He sent flowers to my grandpa's funeral a few years later. He took the time to know people and he will be missed. #JimHunt
December 19, 2025 at 2:38 AM
I always advertised Fablehaven as a child because it was my favorite YA fantasy series and I am excited that a movie is in the works and I can use my knowledge I've obtained since 2008 to win trivia. It's like coming home.
December 18, 2025 at 9:07 AM
So I binged Bread of Angels by Patti Smith and the latest Fablehaven mini novel tonight - over 450 pages scoured in about four hours. I cried at the end of Bread of Angels. Perfect encapsulation of grief.
December 18, 2025 at 9:04 AM