The kids in the next couple months, I think I'm gonna have to get a clone-a-willy kit so I'm not totally without him when he goes to see them. But gods, those kids are not safe with their mother, so fingers crossed we do get custody. I dont care what it does to our sex life, his kids deserve safety.

Just musing as my partner gets ready to leave for his trip to see his kids this evening. It's gonna be a tough almost week without him, and there's a solid chance he'll be in a rough enough emotional state when he gets back that he needs a few days without much touch. If we don't get custody of~

(his health was just an excuse, because she was literally intentionally preventing him from getting care. Yes, he's very much disabled, but like. He was doing EVERYTHING for her. He was functionally a single, stay at home dad of 4 kids, because she needed to be taken care of like their 3 littles 🙄)

(I was the 3rd in their relationship a few years back, but I didn't click with the wife, & then they moved long distance. But we reconnected when she decided to divorce him "because of his health", & we realized our old feelings never went away. We're keeping it casual while he heals emotionally)

And I knew she'd given him BJs before. So I was honestly shocked that I'm the first that's ever made/let him finish. I probably shouldn't be, since she was selfish & really only cared about her own satisfaction.. But I'm honestly tickled to have the badge of being the first/only one to suck him off😋

I'm going to refer to my friend as my partner, because no other terms that could work feel right to me.