august darksouls
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18+ minors dni, crabs should have more beef
this makes me want to see papa in the gurren lagann glasses that akemi forced him to wear as a bit
January 6, 2026 at 12:10 AM
this makes me want to see papa in the gurren lagann glasses that akemi forced him to wear as a bit
lots of complex reasons, people arent used to treating sexy women with respect
December 30, 2025 at 5:08 AM
lots of complex reasons, people arent used to treating sexy women with respect
sexy women good, women displaying autonomy bad
December 27, 2025 at 5:17 AM
sexy women good, women displaying autonomy bad
maturity is being able to understand someone without letting that understanding become justification. the ability to know why someone did something and why that made sense for them, then be like "damn, what a bitch"
December 26, 2025 at 9:35 AM
maturity is being able to understand someone without letting that understanding become justification. the ability to know why someone did something and why that made sense for them, then be like "damn, what a bitch"
mic in hand, old timey newscaster accent: tell us salem, whats your official stance on trans people being weird about your fursona and characters?
December 4, 2025 at 8:53 PM
mic in hand, old timey newscaster accent: tell us salem, whats your official stance on trans people being weird about your fursona and characters?
as a psychology grad student, the thing that shocks me in her paper now that i know it was for a psychology class is how little it actually engages with how people think and behave. its literally a diatribe about how people "should" act instead of how people actually act.
November 30, 2025 at 7:52 PM
as a psychology grad student, the thing that shocks me in her paper now that i know it was for a psychology class is how little it actually engages with how people think and behave. its literally a diatribe about how people "should" act instead of how people actually act.
what could have possibly prompted this thought
November 3, 2025 at 7:34 AM
what could have possibly prompted this thought
theres a variety of options available. if u want i can send u a pdf of a dbt skills manual, u can try some stuff from that (im studying it for a class)
October 15, 2025 at 8:03 AM
theres a variety of options available. if u want i can send u a pdf of a dbt skills manual, u can try some stuff from that (im studying it for a class)
i dont doubt that. sorry, i shouldve clarified that this isnt a moral position, im just... i find our difference interesting and im trying to identify some contributing factors. force of habit.
October 13, 2025 at 5:32 AM
i dont doubt that. sorry, i shouldve clarified that this isnt a moral position, im just... i find our difference interesting and im trying to identify some contributing factors. force of habit.
like i dont indulge in the fantasy of toxicity as much because im trying to promote safe behavior. that being said, i enjoy the safety and consent of kink, for sure, but my experience probably plays a part in WHY i value it so highly
October 13, 2025 at 5:22 AM
like i dont indulge in the fantasy of toxicity as much because im trying to promote safe behavior. that being said, i enjoy the safety and consent of kink, for sure, but my experience probably plays a part in WHY i value it so highly
maybe also a difference in environment? i get the sense that you explore a lot of kink within fiction. ive been active in the scene for a while, and ive demo'd kinks for people for educational purposes many times. for me, being safe is also a matter of community too. idk, just speculating.
October 13, 2025 at 5:19 AM
maybe also a difference in environment? i get the sense that you explore a lot of kink within fiction. ive been active in the scene for a while, and ive demo'd kinks for people for educational purposes many times. for me, being safe is also a matter of community too. idk, just speculating.
i get that, though im very much in the camp of like "i dont want to engage in bdsm if its not safe and sane". some people see that stuff as a concession, an unfortunate necessity, but for me thats the appeal. i want to trust someone enough to let them do kinky things, and have my trust honored.
October 13, 2025 at 5:03 AM
i get that, though im very much in the camp of like "i dont want to engage in bdsm if its not safe and sane". some people see that stuff as a concession, an unfortunate necessity, but for me thats the appeal. i want to trust someone enough to let them do kinky things, and have my trust honored.
i think partially people want to mentally "un-trans" characters and concepts. they want it to be a fetish, not a real type of person who really exists. dudes obsessed with calling every drawing of a girl with a dick "futa", shit like that. pisses me off.
October 13, 2025 at 4:41 AM
i think partially people want to mentally "un-trans" characters and concepts. they want it to be a fetish, not a real type of person who really exists. dudes obsessed with calling every drawing of a girl with a dick "futa", shit like that. pisses me off.
i do think that all trans women should get more grace, and some should get A LOT more grace than theyve been getting historically. still think sylvia rivera sceaming at the people booing her about how much she did for them is some legemdary shit, we need more of that
October 9, 2025 at 12:34 AM
i do think that all trans women should get more grace, and some should get A LOT more grace than theyve been getting historically. still think sylvia rivera sceaming at the people booing her about how much she did for them is some legemdary shit, we need more of that
i like her face shape. shes like one of those makeup sponges
October 9, 2025 at 12:00 AM
i like her face shape. shes like one of those makeup sponges
i need to see this with hitomi, like i bet she'd purr about it
October 4, 2025 at 7:18 PM
i need to see this with hitomi, like i bet she'd purr about it
do you play sf6? i rly want to get back into that game
October 4, 2025 at 1:16 AM
do you play sf6? i rly want to get back into that game
i feel like this is an experience every trans person gets once, whichever side of that experience you fall on.
September 28, 2025 at 3:50 PM
i feel like this is an experience every trans person gets once, whichever side of that experience you fall on.
i love them...
September 24, 2025 at 12:03 PM
i love them...
i wonder if theres a big overlap between people who get mad at boy boobs and people who seem overly concerned with "optics" and i further wonder what that says about respectability politics and perhaps conclude that such politics are just covert acceptance of bigotry
September 18, 2025 at 10:24 PM
i wonder if theres a big overlap between people who get mad at boy boobs and people who seem overly concerned with "optics" and i further wonder what that says about respectability politics and perhaps conclude that such politics are just covert acceptance of bigotry
my read of cis people from what the data suggests and from my personal experiences is that in terms of trans issues, they are largely ignorant and willing to compartmentalize it if they can manage. the amount of times ive needed to step up and educate my peers is... exhausting, to say the least.
September 15, 2025 at 5:52 AM
my read of cis people from what the data suggests and from my personal experiences is that in terms of trans issues, they are largely ignorant and willing to compartmentalize it if they can manage. the amount of times ive needed to step up and educate my peers is... exhausting, to say the least.
than i can even fully conceive of. i dont approach this was cynicism because i think thats productive, but because i think thats more honest of me at this point. like i feel like i have a read of things and my read is negative.
September 15, 2025 at 5:48 AM
than i can even fully conceive of. i dont approach this was cynicism because i think thats productive, but because i think thats more honest of me at this point. like i feel like i have a read of things and my read is negative.
idk thats not even a rebuttal but im just... tired. like my academic focus is psychology and watching how things are progressing from that lens isnt comforting. it hasnt BEEN comforting. my hopes have, as of right now, mostly remained ephemeral. im stuck as a bystander in a political project larger
September 15, 2025 at 5:48 AM
idk thats not even a rebuttal but im just... tired. like my academic focus is psychology and watching how things are progressing from that lens isnt comforting. it hasnt BEEN comforting. my hopes have, as of right now, mostly remained ephemeral. im stuck as a bystander in a political project larger
i wouldnt say its the same, but i will grant that my stance isnt exactly positive on the way things are
September 15, 2025 at 5:43 AM
i wouldnt say its the same, but i will grant that my stance isnt exactly positive on the way things are