NO WAY I didn’t read the caption yet and I was surprised I saw John Doe content on my timeline- this is peak 😭

BWHAHAH I’m sure he will— I mean I will— I mean

Woah! Tysm that means so much

Personally, no. 😔
Idk- I feel like “proship” is kind of an overloaded word (?) For me generally anything involving minors or family members is not my cup of tea and I don’t want to see it.

No I get it- I’m lowkey tired of people putting bingqiu on a proship level of idk “father/daughter” ship because they’re not 😭
I just wanted my opinion out there and your post abt media literacy gave me the opportunity to geek out.

I see where you’re coming from. LBH’s intensity and manipulative tendencies are def. flaws-
As for the fanwei- having read it in Chinese; SQQ “begging him to stop” is more so for melodramatic and comedic effect and common in Chinese humor, a tongue in cheek moment. It highlights SQQ being hyperbolic

NOO OKAY your perspective is valid but I’m not trying to sanitize them, I’m trying to contextualize it. 😭
Since we are on the topic of media literacy- I’m just sharing my perspective of the overall character development. (I have more to yap about. Idk if I’m spamming or if ppl are even interested)

But l was referring to their current relationship status, after the main story. Mainly referencing book 4 and end of 3. Anything before Xin Mo’s destruction is definitely a problematic ship due to the lack of consent. SQQ was too paranoid and in denial and LBH was still being influenced by XM

Ah , I do have quite a bit to say about that. It’s gonna be pretty lengthy; Ive never denied that they had a rough journey. You are absolutely correct; it wasn’t something simple communication and boundaries could have fixed at the start. I also acknowledge that the book deals with dark themes […]

WHAT ?! Can you actually show me cause I’ve missed that. In the interview specials LBH states that he does not agree with taking someone against their will.

Eh, I wouldn't necessarily call it "problematic." 😟 They had a difficult journey yeah- and could work on their communication and establishing healthy boundaries. But like, those are common relationship issues and don't automatically make the situation problematic imo

YEAH AND ANOTHER THING, how do you read the entirety of svsss and think bingqiu is problematic??

- SY and Binghe have a 1 year age difference
- they have similar amount of experience
- and they’re both in high positions

It’s consensual and has no power imbalance. AUGH ITS SO FRUSTRATING

This is beautiful- I loved this scene, it’s so funny how oblivious SQQ is

18 likes- get to it! *rubs hands*

My friend said I might’ve met god-
Didn’t know he was chill like that? God likes Danmei and specifically chose to give me the Hua Cheng pin? That’s insane. /j

Huge coincidence- I didn’t have anything on me that indicated I liked TGCF btw so I was thoroughly stunned. Also I couldn’t just take things without giving anything back so I gave him a Chinese luck charm (Besides that he also told my friend to use vinegar for her acne, erm thats not-) [3/4]

As we entered, a middle-aged guy started laughing to himself (Average Berlin moment). I didn’t pay him much mind until he rummaged through his bag and handed me a Hua Cheng pin?!?!! It looks self made too??? I think he was wearing a potato sack and had a unicorn bag, what a goat holy shit. [2/4]

A friend was visiting Berlin, so I invited her to make bracelets together. After contemplating for a while, I chose to create matching Hua Cheng bracelets for my girlfriend and me! Once we finished, we wanted to grab something to eat, so we headed into the metro. [1/4]