Because for the first time in my life I'm feeling like I'm worth that.

I spent so long prioritizing other people's happiness at the expense of my own and I'm finally reaching the headspace where, aside from my kids, I need to prioritize myself first.

And the best part is I don't feel guilty about that thought at all.
Every bridge I've burned was well deserved and necessary, and I don't have to give my best to anyone who thinks I don't deserve the same in kind.