StellaQ
southernbakedqueer.bsky.social
StellaQ
@southernbakedqueer.bsky.social
📍 Northampton, Mass

🧿🌙✨ Queer fat femme, elder millennial weirdo, pagan witch Southern mama.

Radical political economy. Joyful movement and embodiment. Fat liberation. Reality show shitposting.
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This about says it all:
September 12, 2025 at 4:21 PM
I’ve totally just skipped people’s sections before if I couldn’t stand them. 😆
August 16, 2025 at 7:40 PM
I loved that he immediately understood and took off tho 🤣🤣🤣💀
August 16, 2025 at 4:12 PM
Wait til you see his bullshit on HEA 🙃
August 16, 2025 at 4:08 PM
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April is Loser Month
April 22, 2025 at 12:49 AM
How dare you insult Nandor like that
April 1, 2025 at 5:26 AM
Ugh yeeessssss the music was hittin SO GOOD last night 😂
April 1, 2025 at 3:59 AM
Same girl I literally start twerking in my chair 🤣
April 1, 2025 at 3:31 AM
Definitely heard Buddhism in Parker’s voice 🤣
April 1, 2025 at 3:30 AM
Our Lady of We Listen and We Don’t Judge
April 1, 2025 at 3:29 AM
If anything happens to Belinda WE RIOT
April 1, 2025 at 3:27 AM
Listen I’m twice divorced, and shared custody situations can be TENSE. There’s not always the ability to swap nights or change schedules. Maybe it was just her night with the kids and she couldn’t change it. Although obviously she could have hired a babysitter. Or gotten a door. 🙄
April 1, 2025 at 3:19 AM
7. So I understand that Shawn is in a difficult spot, and he deserves some grace. Even though I fully supported my ex transitioning, it was a source of major heartbreak for me. It takes a LONG time to fully process everything that comes with it. So please, don’t see his struggles as transphobia. 🏳️‍⚧️
April 1, 2025 at 3:15 AM
6. And ALSO when you fought a hard battle for your gayness, it kinda stings to not have that represented in your relationship. I had sworn off men, so my partner transforming into one was a real hard sell. I came around eventually, even though it didn’t work out, but it was ROUGH.
April 1, 2025 at 3:14 AM
5. So I understand Shawn’s pain, I really do. The love and connection you have with someone doesn’t disappear after transition, even if their physical form isn’t your favorite anymore. They’re still your person. And he’s trying really hard, even if he has a long way to go.
April 1, 2025 at 3:12 AM
4. We got married a year later, but our relationship fell apart quickly. I tried to hold on and save us, since we had fought so hard for our family. But they were tired, and they gave up. I had to lose the supposed love of my life twice, and it was the most excruciating pain I’ve ever experienced.
April 1, 2025 at 3:10 AM
3. I had been a loud trans advocate for years, so I knew what this meant. The version of them I fell in love with was going to disappear. And I was right. They changed, drastically. They admitted the person I fell for didn’t exist anymore. Never really did, like a ghost. And I was happy for them.
April 1, 2025 at 3:07 AM