Tom Cavnar
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Tom Cavnar
@sonusexmachina.com
Father, partner, cat lover, audio nerd, rock climber, novice luthier | he/him
I instinctively want to save him from the mockery & cruelty I endured as a child.

But I probably don't need to. He doesn't need protecting or saving. I did. Perhaps I still do?
December 7, 2025 at 4:47 AM
But I realize that I was upset about how he was expressing himself, because I spent my entire childhood being brutally physically punished and emotionally abused for being different from other people.

My cringing response is because I fear for him. Because people are (were?) cruel to difference.
December 7, 2025 at 4:47 AM
He wasn't hurting anyone. He was only (perhaps slightly) annoying a group of adults at an all ages punk rock show at a record store. The band was really cool about it.

But it was really hard to watch, and super "cringe" for me.
December 7, 2025 at 4:47 AM
OMG, that sounds so good! Coffee and crème brûlée would be a perfect breakfast.

And you were doing a service to your family, for food safety reasons. Well done!
November 30, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Reposted by Tom Cavnar
Here. Have a spotty belly.
November 29, 2025 at 12:20 AM
Wow. That tracks, based on what I know of him.

I haven’t seen them live (yet), but hopefully I’ll manage it soon.
November 26, 2025 at 3:31 AM
The noises he can make with his voice are absolutely terrifying. And impressive.

Really enjoying StP’s latest album, Grizzly.
November 26, 2025 at 3:12 AM