I swear this is one of the main reasons it’s tragic Americans don’t travel more. They live in these weird little bubbles and don’t understand that the world is big and multifarious.

So many men go through life like that. You can play poker because it's right-coded, you can't enjoy fruity alcoholic drinks because they're women-coded, you can't lick an ice cream cone because it's gay-coded. All day, every day, choosing and judging things based on coding for narrow norms.