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Sommer Tothill
@sommertothill.bsky.social
Diversifying from Meta (65k followers across Insta & Threads). Find me on TikTok & YouTube too.

Patriarchy isn't going to smash itself
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A haunted house and it's just a guy who wants a trad wife but not a gold digger
October 31, 2025 at 8:02 AM
A haunted house but it's just every older man who said you were "mature for your age".
October 31, 2025 at 8:01 AM
A haunted house but it's just a male project manager convincing his wife he doesn't have the skills to run a household
October 31, 2025 at 8:00 AM
A haunted house but it's just a guy who can't find the clit telling you condoms "don't feel as good"
October 31, 2025 at 7:59 AM
A haunted house but it's just a gallery of single mothers being called "crazy" by their exes who don't pay child support
October 31, 2025 at 7:58 AM
A haunted house but it's just your country telling women they need to have more kids while also refusing to pay parental leave
October 31, 2025 at 7:57 AM
A haunted house but it's just one guy screaming that women should keep their legs closed and then screaming that women should always be sexually available to men
October 31, 2025 at 7:56 AM
Yes, agreed!
July 21, 2025 at 4:28 AM
The way to interact with it as a feminist – particularly if you're going to be an intersectional and decolonial feminist – is to reject it entirely.

Mind you, I'm not sure how. Let me know if you solve it.
July 19, 2025 at 1:48 AM
sustain him throughout his life, including the point where he may choose to leave his wife.

She will then be high and dry without any career or income earning opportunities to support herself and her children.
July 13, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Feminists write books on how to solve the domestic labour gap, wage gap, pleasure gap – and indeed the gaps in some of the outcomes that see men and boys suffering because of patriarchy.

All feminism ever does is present solutions. But are you paying attention or do you benefit from the status quo?
July 13, 2025 at 8:52 AM
Feminists bring solutions around how to improve economic policy, how to change healthcare, how to fix men's violence, how to reform dating and marriage so that it does not continue to oppress women, how to create a more inclusive and diverse world...
July 13, 2025 at 8:48 AM