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Happily 👨🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽💍
Fitness nerd who “loves” food, stress and anxiety
Appreciate my team who makes me feel like the princess I truly am.
December 16, 2025 at 9:04 PM
Almost two weeks out of the gym dealing with life stuff. First day back and Im already 😵
December 12, 2025 at 1:34 PM
In bed 😈
December 1, 2025 at 3:15 AM
My favorite gay holiday decoration is this pair of gay snowmen in a forest I put out each year. Making sure the neighbors know who we are.

❄️ ⛄️ ❄️
#gay #holiday #love you
November 28, 2025 at 8:25 PM
Growing the wings so people can read the text from across the room. Holidays are hard for a lot of people, spread love. Love the person in front of you ❤️

#gay #love #positive #positivity #SpreadLove #gym #fitness
November 24, 2025 at 2:40 PM
If i let me beard grow out, i feel like im starting to giving lumberjack vibs. Just need flannel.
November 19, 2025 at 6:19 PM
After days and days of ‘meh’ workouts. I really dig in today on glutes and hammies. Made substantial progress and ill be walking funny for a couple days 🤪. Even got a few mins in the sauna to unwind so i could share my chunky sweaty self.

#gay #fitness
November 19, 2025 at 4:38 PM
6 month measurement checking
Waist -1.5”
Chest +1.1”
Arms +0.7”
Slow but consistent progress. Trust the process then fall in love with the process.
November 17, 2025 at 2:19 PM
Sundays are meal prep day. Takes about 3 hours to prepare and weigh everything. But half my meals for the week are taken care of, and definitely helps me stay on track diet wise.
November 10, 2025 at 12:49 AM
Today I was told my shirt gave someone a ray if light when they were having a dark day. Even if thats the only person who ever benefits from it, Ill call this shirt purchase a success.
#gay #positivity
November 8, 2025 at 6:51 PM
I got larger shirts because i was feeling self conscious. But somehow they are making me look even bigger (but in a good way). Guess ill be embracing the oversized shirts for a long while.
November 4, 2025 at 2:25 PM
Getting multiple uses of my Halloween costume this year. Also had worn it to a Halloween event, a jack sparrow told me “Id lick all the glaze off your hole”
I LOL’d, my husband was not impressed 🤣

#gay #Halloween
October 31, 2025 at 3:06 PM
Down 13lbs since August, the last 7 have been more challenging.

Decided I’m going to continue my fitness journey in a more modest fashion. So putting away the tank tops and short shorts, T-shirts and long pants until sometime next year.

#gay #fitness #gayfit
October 28, 2025 at 3:54 PM
This week the negative thoughts built in my head until they reached a cacophony of self doubt. I let them speak their peace and binged on pizza and wine. Today while they are still there I am moving forward.
My shirt a reminder to be gentle to myself while i continue towards my goal
#motivation #gay
October 24, 2025 at 1:43 PM
Nothing like a fresh hair cut, a solid shoulder workout and a revealing tank top you make you feel swoll.
At least until the BM kicks back in tomorrow telling me a tiny ball of dough 😂
October 19, 2025 at 11:08 PM
Oh glad you got the memo for gay Halloween costumes. This is approved.
October 17, 2025 at 10:07 PM
Friday me is not happy withThursday me for that extra glass of wine 😒
Least the hungover workout is completed
October 17, 2025 at 1:49 PM
Me from a previous life.
Her name was Molly and she was cold.
October 15, 2025 at 7:12 PM
After a good quad workout. I did manage to get 30 secs of peace in the sauna.
October 15, 2025 at 5:50 PM
I cannot top the best Halloween costume i ever made. I was a cereal killer 🤪
October 14, 2025 at 2:57 PM
2nd tattoo session and was able to finish half of the refresh. Cant finish today, but taking a quick break and see how much we can do on the other side.

Looks like i might get to be a fallen angel for Halloween at this rate.

#gay #tattoo
October 11, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Shhhh 🤫 dont tell my trainer I cheated for my anniversary. Also omg it was good 🤤
October 8, 2025 at 1:23 AM
2 years ago we had the best party of our lives. Surrounded by friends and family who kept our wine glasses full and danced the night away. 🥰

#gay #husbands #anniversary
October 7, 2025 at 11:12 AM
Havent slept well the last few days, but still managed to get up, consume a questionable amount of caffeine and get a quad day in. Then some detox in the sauna.
October 6, 2025 at 2:18 PM
Taking advantage of our lake privileges for the first time with a party boat, sushi and wine. Much needed relaxing time with some vitamin D
October 5, 2025 at 12:32 AM