And the end result is a lot less gay and trans headcanons and ships overall in fandom.

So idk. Please recognize this mentality is bait and just ignore it LOL. Queer people are not oppressing other queer people through headcanons. That isn’t a thing in real life.

“Things are only queer if outright proved (which is a shitty argument in total ignorance of our history) but also if you try to prove it, shame on you for implying that you can just tell someone’s gender or sexuality through their DEMEANOR or PRESENTATION! 🤢”

It’s both abusive and self sustaining.

You especially will see cis gays do this to trans gays for example, it’s usually not a lateral aggression because the very argument is based in cisheteronormativity.

It’s an abusive argument at that.

And a lot of queer fandom (especially those who haven’t deconstructed from cishet superiority in fandom) actually picked up on it too, because it’s fauxgressive bait designed to catch some fake woke idiots in its net.

Now you have queer fans spouting this at OTHER queer fans!!

Cishet centered fandom learned this very handy neat response to shut up queer people who have learned to “prove” their queer interpretations - “Actually, you’re the real homophobe for thinking there’s such thing as ‘gay traits’ at all!”

That’s their new favorite toy.

like use whatever terminology you want, i don't think anyone is being hurt. But it's weird to me how much more popular and normalized selfshipping became when people came up with a weeb term for it. i think some of you guys are just weebs with insecurity issues

You people are under spells out here defending the sanctity of the cis genders and heterosexual identities of fictional characters and/or closeted public figures. It is INSANE

You wish harm on others constantly. You can’t hate trans people without wishing harm on all women, both cis and trans. Your ideology is literally about causing harm to women.

You literally support women being physically and sexually assaulted in bathrooms.

You have no common decency and lie currently throwing a tantrum because nobody accepts your desire to to demand genital inspections of women that you think don’t look pretty enough.

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