So far, and yes block hard and block often,but when it’s endemic and deeply embedded within the site. It’s concerning.

Maybe it will change in the future. However this is just how I feel in the moment.

I understand everyone has their own wants and needs, but they are your wants and needs.

Please be accepting that there may be other people that maybe affected by your actions or words. Inclusivity also means accommodating for other people’s traumas.

You can only take, “it’s just a joke bro.”

I will now post about the cons on this site. I think there is an excessive amount of codependent behavior on here, like excessive. Yes everyone needs the occasional validation, but some of the takes on here would get you flamed by people on other sites within even queer spaces.

I also like that a lot of people are willing to support each other, but that’s a double edged sword and I will get to that in a second when I post my cons.

I also like that the community on here is still tight knit as ever.

First I am going to post some positive observations:

I love that there are many people who have found a safety and identity within here, especially marginalized or queer people. I love that the culture of inclusivity is still going strong.

I love that the posters here still are funny here.

I’ve made more mistakes in one lifetime than most people do in several. (Well except get someone pregnant and tbh I still have worries about that).

Like is this arrogance? More than likely, everyone has their own path, but when I see people making the same mistakes I did… I just have to laugh sometimes.

Banger

I get it, trust me I get it lol.

Damn procrastination always gets me so I feel u lmao

Ah yes, the mega toke that doesn’t go away. Been here lmao

Like shit if people don’t like you, alright cool.

If people can’t understand you mean well, alright cool.

Shit didn’t work out like you wanted it to?

Cool.

Ain’t a reason to give up on yourself tbh.

….it seemed like a good idea in the moment?

Masochism,

Or if you want to be clinical an emotional release.

Let’s fucking go!