this was on tiktok btw. i should have known better than to engage there— lots of toxicity especially with anti RA people. but like,, show me where it said alastor is straight??? they insist vivzie said that 😭 all she said was he thought he hasn’t found the one yet or smth. if i recall correctly.

i am not a super affectionate person and don’t like people in my personal space. i prefer to initiate hugs myself because of this. i was guilted when i was younger by my parents for not wanting to hug my sister when she wanted me too. but everyone is quite clear on my boundaries now.