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Mr. James
@snarkygayguy.bsky.social
Snarky gay dude who has been happily married to another gay dude for over three decades.

Just here to post stupid shit, and look at cuties.
After over three decades together sometimes we both overthink trying to get the "perfect gift" for each other.

In reality finding each other was always the best gift.
December 19, 2025 at 3:52 AM
SPOILER ALERT: Those were not chocolate chips.
December 19, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Problem solved.
December 19, 2025 at 3:20 AM
The White House live cameras are turned off and reports are his helicopter headed to the hospital again.

So, yes Virginia, maybe there is a Santa Claus!
December 19, 2025 at 3:06 AM
Just when I thought Nick Offerman couldn't be any more adorable he does this:
December 19, 2025 at 1:11 AM
December 19, 2025 at 1:10 AM
Obviously criticism doesn’t feel good. Disappointing someone we love doesn’t feel good. But it will happen. Being a mature adult in a relationship means learning how to tolerate being challenged without collapsing into shame, blame, defensiveness or avoidance.
December 19, 2025 at 12:40 AM
When we love someone, we show it. In how we speak. In how we treat them.

if you’re not showing up with warmth and kindness on a regular basis, if you’re not making it clear (through words and actions) that you love them and actually want to be in this with them.
December 19, 2025 at 12:31 AM
Let's stop pretending a good partner is someone with the perfect list of shared interests, flawless behavior, and perfect compatibility. And while we're at it let's stop living in the fantasy that having conflict or fighting is a sign of incompatibility.
December 19, 2025 at 12:14 AM
I never, ever want to hear another American make fun of North Korea ever again.
December 18, 2025 at 11:23 PM
Only a person easily bribed would think that everyone else is easily bribed. $1776 to the soldiers. $1500 to you, to cover a lifetime of medical expenses. $2000 tariff refund.
A man with billions of dollars thinks you can be bought for 2 grand.
December 18, 2025 at 8:12 PM
Trump hates Rob Reiner because Americans actually loved Rob Reiner.

Nobody loves Trump. Not even Melania.
December 16, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Trump hates Rob Reiner because Americans actually loved Rob Reiner.

Nobody loves Trump. Not even Melania.
December 16, 2025 at 4:19 PM
In a world full of Archie Bunkers, be a Meathead.

R.I.P. Rob Reiner
December 15, 2025 at 2:20 PM
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December 15, 2025 at 4:23 AM
I regret nothing.
December 15, 2025 at 4:22 AM
December 15, 2025 at 4:12 AM
December 15, 2025 at 3:58 AM
*batteries not included*
December 15, 2025 at 3:03 AM
December 15, 2025 at 2:48 AM
December 15, 2025 at 2:48 AM
December 15, 2025 at 2:48 AM
December 15, 2025 at 2:48 AM
December 15, 2025 at 2:39 AM