BUT im sick of the pattern. Does something wrong, gets confronted, posts concerning posts, gets people to leave him alone , never takes accountability. Its a constant cycle and im on the receiving end of it.

I dont mean to reply so much, character limits suck.

Im not just coming to kick him when he's down - not at all. I AM very concerned for him. 12 years of love and friendship doesnt just disappear.

There IS no better in this situation. There is no possible explanation or reason he had to tell people - strangers- about my entire life and every major trauma i've gone through.

There is no 'talking when things are better' because just like he always has in the past - he wont bring it up again.

Up until 2 days ago , he was my very best friend in the world. I know how he operates, and I know that the only reason he's posting anything concerning is because he knows it will get people to stop talking to him about the issues.

This is his pattern.

I get where you're coming from - i've word for word said the exact same things TO joey in the past about situations like this.

The fact of the matter is that JOEY wanted to air out all of this stuff - he should need to take accountability.. I've known him for 12 years. Very very well.

I'll be completely honest with you - he does this behavior when he's confronted with something he's done wrong. This is consistent over 10 years. There is a surplus of proof that has been posted of how often he makes these concerning posts after having issues with other people or friends.

Examples of quality!