And not bc the general point you were making didn't have truth or importance! But bc it was lacking in substantive evidence and analysis to back up the more specific claims made about specific creators. I know it's rough to sift the concrit from the hate but I hope in time you absorb the former

I know this may not land for you, but I say this as someone who has watched your channel and was subbed to you and really enjoyed other vids. I'm like your exact demographic in a lot of ways (nonbinary, kinky, neurodivergent bisexual who spends time on tumblr lol). This one was a problem tho

w/o genuine concern for her as an individual. especially due to the complete lack of evidence you provided. Yes, other people took that vague claim and hyperbolized it, but you did put it out there in a pretty irresponsible manner and one that instrumentalized her for your video.

I know you're getting a lot of heat for other claims you made, but I think this one is worth reflection too. Claiming he's disrespectful to her dragged her into it in a way that tbh felt really inconsiderate of her as a person. It felt like using her as a tool to dunk on him