It's caused by sickness, disease and general ill health, no? Mocking folks for symptoms of those is ableist. Again ofc, I have no intent on defending that wretched, genocidal autocrat but just be mindful of how this might reflect on attitudes towards your non-fascist peers.

(They're also usually just so much more uncomfortable and therefore less accessible to folks with sensory needs, autistic individuals for example, but I don't have the spoons to get into all that right now)

I don't think you should be incapable of calling your partner(s) "husband", "wife", "spouse" etc, or be incapable of throwing a celebration of your relationship and commitment to each another but the legal institution of marriage has to go.

huh... maybe bsky just shows it as "blocked" if the QRTer blocks the QRTee or vice versa. Either way, some liberal saying Trump is evidence someone with NPD should never be allowed to be president or whatever

Trump is a lot of things. A self-aggrandising, totalitarian wannabe dictator. A wretched and repugnant rapist. An odious nationalist, eugenicist and fascist. A despicable, conceited and baneful autocrat. What he is not is a "narcissist" or a "sociopath" or a "psycho".

Thirdly, all mentally ill individuals, including scary cluster-Bs, are more likely be victims of violence and oppression than perpetrators. Many are sectioned/psych incarcerated to this day solely for being abnormal.

Secondly, it takes away from accountability for his actions by instead blaming them on mental illness. As a narcissist myself, sometimes I respond poorly to criticism before letting it fully process then realise I've made an ass of myself and rectify that.

I don't have the energy to go into every reason this conflation is shitty right now but this shit suggests that those of us with NPD are fundamentally fascistic because of how our brains responded to childhood trauma. This is plainly ableist and anti-victim.

At least the shit that wasn't forcing me to write about how XYZ applies to me was a tolerable waste of my time. But when you're asking how I could budget better or use whatever strengths and weaknesses to achieve some made-up goal that's acceptable in a capitalist society... fuck off patronising me!

I don't give two shits about any goals I could list there without causing issues.
I already know how to budget, kinda had to learn that to survive this far.
I don't give a flying fuck about "national values" or "make sure to use different passwords and don't write them down"