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Sir Josef Bathory
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Born in an eclipse; finds good fortune in shadows. Recovering scribe. Finger-puppeteer. Punk's not dead. Trans. Mitten State.
Pinned
Shibari knots, rope harnesses and inverted suspension. Nothing like predicament bondage to distract from the predicament at hand.
Two days out from Top Surgery.
August 31, 2025 at 1:59 AM
First vacation in two years, and slowing down time with a Polaroid.
August 2, 2025 at 11:50 AM
One year on testosterone, and one month out for top surgery. I'm filled with joy and hope.
July 30, 2025 at 10:31 PM
Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly.
June 7, 2025 at 1:18 PM
Gender-affirming surgery set for Sept. 2. Feels like revolution.
May 25, 2025 at 4:40 PM
Max T dose and feeling all the feels. Top consult complete, plus a bit of fuzz on my lip.
a sassy sasquatch is holding a cup of juice
ALT: a sassy sasquatch is holding a cup of juice
media.tenor.com
May 3, 2025 at 3:19 PM
A watched 'stache never sprouts.
April 1, 2025 at 12:27 AM
Belted out some Janis during karaoke last night, and the limitations from T were a challenge. As awkward as it was, it also proved euphoric.
March 21, 2025 at 1:30 PM
Today I hit the big screen during a presser for Cobalt Magnet, an international nuclear preparedness drill. More than 3,000 people took part in the exercise.
March 19, 2025 at 1:24 AM
Shibari knots, rope harnesses and inverted suspension. Nothing like predicament bondage to distract from the predicament at hand.
March 16, 2025 at 9:33 PM
I shaved my baby 'stache for an interview, and it's slow-rolling a return appearance. Boo.
March 14, 2025 at 4:34 PM
March 2, 2025 at 10:11 PM
Nothing that a roll through the car wash can't cheer up.
March 2, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Got my first "yes, sir" today.
March 1, 2025 at 1:34 AM
Michigan Capitol Rotunda, State of the State address.
February 27, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Do you love Star Wars? Are you looking for new friends? The Lansing Area AIDS Network will be hosting a speed friending (platonic speed dating) event Saturday, May 3 to raise money for our Prevention and Harm Reduction program. Join us beginning at 7 p.m. at Esquire Bar in Old Town, Lansing.
February 24, 2025 at 2:45 AM
My brain is fried. I love a platform that doesn't require a TLDR.
February 23, 2025 at 2:24 PM
Finally painted over the radioactive green walls. Virginia was right. There's a lot to be said about having a room of one's own.
February 22, 2025 at 10:45 PM
Same.
i’ve had my jaw clenched and my eyebrows furrowed every day since i was 11
February 21, 2025 at 3:14 AM
Just spent a crazy amount of time trying to figure out the bathroom situation at IKEA before committing to a road trip.
February 17, 2025 at 2:49 PM
Home projects inevitably present diminishing returns. Third trip to Lowe's in two hours, just for a bedroom painting gig.
February 15, 2025 at 8:19 PM
Prepping to paint a room, and wishing I had the fury of a scorned younger self so I could move this furniture.
February 15, 2025 at 12:58 AM
Dorothy Allison once placed her hand on the small of my back while I read a poem. She also taught me the art of slitting a vein so honest words could land on a page. She said “I believe that storytelling can be a strategy to help you make sense out of your life,” and helped me make sense of mine.
Dorothy Allison, Author of ‘Bastard Out of Carolina,’ Dies at 75
She wrote lovingly and often hilariously about her harrowing childhood in a working-class Southern family, as well as about the violence and incest she suffered.
www.nytimes.com
February 9, 2025 at 9:24 PM
Reposted by Sir Josef Bathory
The baseline of Queer Resistance is Survival: don't burn yourself out.

Don't get bogged-down in the news. Sleep enough, eat enough, REST enough, and seek some joy. Reinvest some time into hobbies.

Queer Fightback can only be accomplished when you have looked-after yourself: Queer Joy is Rebellion.
February 6, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Just when dysphoria had me spinning my wheels, a colleague called me "sir" today. Gender euphoria engaged.
February 7, 2025 at 1:38 AM