This is absolutely spot on

To pay a professional Dom / Domme. A true professional spends £1000’s on training, equipment, clothing etc. So why does anyone expect to have a service for free? Even when you see a lifestyle Dom / Domme. Look at how much you and them have spent.

Formerly kThen as a mentor and a teacher as SirBearMaster. Now finally evolved to Lanista Bear. We came across this when we was researching role plays for a client and fully embracing the ludis lifestyle. You will never find a greater escape!