It feels like a literal hush hush thing because my friend just got hers put back in and her gyn did it after she had to ask

Some doctors do the numbing but it’s more of a you have to ask to get it. It’s still impossible to get numbed because the medical field just thinks we’re hulk ass bitches that can take any type of pain. 🥲

I’m kinda tired of being seen as nothing more than a child bearer. Men get to do whatever they want but we can’t even live a life that we want.