this is why I still haven't changed my legal name, despite that I'm fully transitioned otherwise, and also sometimes use my deep boymode voice when I feel like it, despite that I otherwise pass: sure it leads to a bunch of really shitty situations at times, but I do feel it moves the needle

bit more hilarious story, my brother got completely wasted because once when going out he figured what could possible go wrong if he finishes a drink one of the women in their group abandoned

he learned that lesson 🤣 luckily nothing worse happened than his gf having to carry him back home

I had some really "interesting" discussions with dudes explaining to them the concept of friendzone and generally not openly saying no, but instead being extremely non-committal and why women do that.

interesting as in they got dangerously angry 🫣

since a few years the local street cocaine market moved to the plaza in front of my house, and it's mostly black dudes who run this one. I'm white af, but it's so obvious even I can see it

I've changed my position from being very hesitant to call the police to never