We tend to imagine that lives are shaped by decisions — the big ones, the visible ones, the moments we can point to and explain later. But more often than not, it’s the quieter things that do the shaping. Small habits. Repeated gestures. Ways of moving through days that don’t announce themselves as important at the time. These habits don’t feel impressive.

I’ve learned that most plants don’t fail because we don’t care enough. They fail because we care too much, too many rules, too many instructions, too much second-guessing. Indoor herbs, in particular, seem to attract advice. Exact hours of sunlight. Precise watering schedules. Warnings about what not to do. It can all start to feel like a test you’re quietly failing.

There is a particular kind of disappointment that creeps in when days don’t announce themselves. No milestones, no dramatic turns, no visible progress. Just a stretch of time that passes quietly, almost apologetically, as if it hasn’t earned the right to be remembered. January often brings this feeling with it. After the heightened expectations of a new year, ordinary days can feel like a let-down.

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