not an anison but kpop, 한번만 안아줘 by Girl's Day

if this is an inescapable consequence of human individuality, how do people overcome it so naturally? am i programmatically dysfunctional, or just stupid and blind to the obvious?

which i don't mind, generally. in fact i love it. but periodically there is a wave of loneliness crashing over me out of nowhere. it would be nice to have a romantic interest but i don't know how people manage that, or how to even find another human to interact with in your vicinity