but I see, understand, and validate myself. I’m here I’m here I’m here, and i will always be

to not be seen, understood, validated by someone who claimed to have loved me is such a lonely feeling. it’s like in all our time together, he didn’t even know me as a person and it sucks that it’s always the crux of a lot of my relationships/friendships

none of these things are about me as a person, all it is superficial traits and what I did for the relationship, for him

he’s just living his best life